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jol@discuss.tchncs.de 2 days agoIt’s not as simple as that at all. Sexuality is a spectrum, it’s fluid, you’re not always born with it, and there are social factors at play. In some societies bi people live straight lives due to social pressure. On top of that, many bi guys often have more sex with guys because it’s easier and carries no risk of pregnancy. So yeah, your friend is just discriminating against bisexual people.
Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 day ago
*friends (2 guys), and idk about them being discriminating because at least one of them is quite open and nonjudgmental. That’s the whole point of why I shared, to find out how accurate or inaccurate their sentiment is. We don’t have to suddenly attack them by saying they’re discriminating just because their experience isn’t universal (which I now know is the case, thanks to everyone here)…
jol@discuss.tchncs.de 23 hours ago
It’s still a kind of discrimination when you can’t imagine other people like you to be different than you. It’s totally fine for them to be 80-20 gay-straight but when you make blanket statements like “as a bi, I can tell you most bi guys are actually gay” that is hurtful discrimination.