You are perfectly making my point: when you write “people who,…” you in that case are actually adressing OP and using the typical “pick me” mechanism to dodge addressing OP directly. (Because he didn’t say what you laid in his mouth (but you didn’t because you are talking about people)) What i wish: By highering yourself let’s not lower others but convince them of our arguments. With “people who…” you are creating groups that most of the times aren’t as homogeneous as we think.