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smiletolerantly@awful.systems ⁨7⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago

I unfortunately wouldn’t call it solved. I host XMPP and Matrix, (and a STUN/TURN server, and a Livekit server for the modern matrix calls…), and nothing is perfect.

Prosody is really great because it’s so no-nonsense. It doesn’t hog resources or choke up like matrix servers do if you suggest to them that maybe they could deliver this text message? :3 Oh, no, it’s “hold for 2 weeks despite the recipient being online” again? Ok…

But XMPP is still incredibly hard to recommend for me, because

  1. no way to read old chats on new devices, which honestly is close to a deal-breaker for many people, myself inclided. And
  2. apart from maybe monocles on android, the clients just suck ass. They’re bad. Their UI/UX is stuck 20 years ago, and that does matter.

Hence why I still mostly use Matrix… Even though it’s such a stupid, stupid protocol.

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