Comment on I get scared of a girl who approached me
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 2 days ago
Idk about going forward in general besides truly believing that people are fundamentally ‘good’ and there’s almost always nothing to fear… but I do think you’re gonna have to apologise to the lady and explain what happened. It ain’t a crime to be shy, and it would reassure her. Maybe compliment her if you’re feeling brave! Or at least say something like “it’s kinda brave to approach people randomly, I wish I were as comfortable…”, that sounds like a good follow up to the apology.
Zwuzelmaus@feddit.org 1 day ago
I don’t believe that. At all.
And I don’t think that anybody can simply change such a fundamental kind of belief.
ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 1 day ago
Of course we can, but it takes time and a conscious effort to unlearn whatever traumatic lessons you were taught by life/your childhood.