Cool that someone is at least against generalizations.
Comment on Why is the manosphere on the rise? UN Women sounds the alarm over online misogyny
nichtsowichtig@feddit.org 20 hours agoit does not help that women basically treat men as super-predators.
let’s do without these stupid kinds of generalizations, alright? Very few women actually have resentments towards (all) men. And many of them do so as a result of trauma.
WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 19 hours ago
catty@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
So it’s ok to hate men based on certain criteria you define? Even if it’s due to (your) trauma, that still doesn’t make it ok to project hatred towards men.
nichtsowichtig@feddit.org 18 hours ago
you,'re right, it’s not okay. But that can be something genuinely difficult to overcome. And it wouldnt be right to blame them the same way we blame bigots who never experienced anything similar.
catty@lemmy.world 18 hours ago
Those bigots surely will have experienced lots of similar things (like everyone else) making them not bigots. Maybe the person projecting hatred onto this ‘bigot’ lives in such an isolated world. Inclusivity would help them understand here.
nichtsowichtig@feddit.org 18 hours ago
I agree! My point is this: People choose to self-seggregate because of their, in many cases, valid experiences of discrimination. That’s how it is and it is okay. And instead of blaming them for “isolating” themselves, we should instead strive to create environments where these people feel welcome to be a part of. We cannot do that by invalidating the experiences they have.