Comment on Why is the manosphere on the rise? UN Women sounds the alarm over online misogyny

• barsoap@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  Real men don’t cry. Real men aren’t weak. Real men toughen up and don’t complain. Real men don’t care about injustice if it’s them who are affected. That’s you.

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  • TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    Sure. Real men don’t cry. Real men aren’t weak. Real men toughen up and don’t complain. Real men don’t care about injustice if it’s them who are affected. That’s you.

    Lol, falsely conflating me telling you not to blame POC and women for late stage capitalism with telling you not to cry is pretty hilarious.

    What injustice are you facing that generations of women and immigrants haven’t been receiving the whole time?

    I’m not telling you not to communicate or build support networks, I’m saying don’t blame minorities for the lack of those support networks.

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    • barsoap@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      Lol, falsely conflating me telling you not to blame POC and women for late stage capitalism with telling you not to cry is pretty hilarious.

      I did what?

      What injustice are you facing that generations of women and immigrants haven’t been receiving the whole time?

      I’ve been using this thread as an opportunity to talk about a positive example, and that’s the marked increase in male childcare workers in Germany. I pointed out some masculine influencers doing good work. I bemoaned that much “X for women/girls” stuff is half-assed feel-good BS, prone to causing more harm than good (because half-assed, because it’s done for optics instead of the thing itself).

      I’ve been constructive. I didn’t lash out and try to put people down for caring about their issues. I didn’t wrap people up in ass-long back and forth threads demanding justification after justification why they care just to find an excuse to pounce, then ride my high horse into the sunset.

      Oh, and I also shot the horse of some guy.

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      • TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        Oh I’m sorry I mistook you for someone who was blaming minorities for their woes… You’re just a guy defending him.

        been constructive. I didn’t lash out and try to put people down for caring about their issues. I didn’t wrap people up in ass-long back and forth threads demanding justification after justification why they care just to find an excuse to pounce, then ride my high horse into the sunset

        If that’s your take on this thread then you’re just as complicit as the rest of these incels.

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    • WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      And as usual, in an act of irony, men are the biggest misandrist, and my biggest source of pain. I don’t like this social contract where I get fucked over no matter what. I’m just going to abandon it, and lead a massive exile with me. I already have a solar panel, and plan to get more.

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      • TranscendentalEmpire@lemmy.today ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        And as usual, in an act of irony, men are the biggest misandrist, and my biggest source of pain

        I think you’re confusing misandry with people just not liking you. It’s exceedingly rare for men to be harassed or oppressed simply for their gender.

        I don’t like this social contract where I get fucked over no matter what

        Lol, what are you talking about? Everyone keeps saying this shit, but no one is giving any real world examples. I am a man, if there is some social contract that sets men up to lose, why am I not experiencing it? I’m married, I have friends who are women, I work with several women, I don’t have any problems with the opposing sex? Maybe it’s a you problem and not a societal one?

        I’m just going to abandon it, and lead a massive exile with me. I already have a solar panel, and plan to get more.

        Lol, your username is apt. You think you’re going to be the Moses of incels and lead a bunch of morons off to the woods with nothing but a solar panel?

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