I ended up choosing this one, since it’s small and it helps spread the user load around.

Alternatively, if you want to delete your lemm.ee profile, now is the best time to do it, so the deletion can federate out before we go offline.

I also decided to nuke my account, unfortunately when lemm.ee shuts down this implies users will lose control over the content saved on other instances without ability to remove it.

If you nuke it now the deletion will still sync through fediverse.