Im not saying go no contact forever. I’ve said previously they should have their mother’s back until he can genuinely say sorry and start the healing process
Right now everyone here is advocating for shitting on the mother in her most vulnerable state. Because the dad is fun
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
I’m sure it is hard for Mom right now, but she’s not in the room, so, we’re focusing on OPs well being.
It is not the kid’s responsibility to be their parent’s support team.
It is not the kid’s responsibility to dispense justice for the other parent.
Just because OP is the only character in this story we can interact with, it doesn’t mean that they need to right every wrong in it.
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Then OP better be fine never talking to their mom again
Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Unless you are their mother and refuse to talk to them, that’s not up to you.
And if you are, or if she has the same plan, then OP would probably be better off without.
UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works 3 weeks ago
Yes, cause letting your child not only live with a cheater but the young ASSISTANT he fucked while still going through with your divorce is such a good move.
The dad obviously doesn’t make good choices. He’s only thinking about himself. And the child already thinks theyre the greatest.
Im not saying parents should never talk to their kids. But thats what’s going to happen if OP stays in the house with is dad and his YOUNG ASSISTANT THAT MOVED IN BEFORE THE DIVORCE SHE CAUSED IS EVEN FINAL