Sometimes things end because someone wants something the other doesn’t. That’s ok. It’s life.

But if you never take the shot, then you’re keeping something alive in hopes of some potential future breakthrough, and that’s not fair to you (or them) either.

So, rip the bandaid off and commit. If that’s not what she wants, that’s on her, and you can move on.

And please, please, please remember— her mental health issues are her own and not yours to solve or navigate like a minefield.