Because they’re wonderful! And because you love someone.
Yeah, they can also go horribly wrong. I think that’s true of just about everything good - the more good it is, the worse it hurts when it goes wrong. But get it right, and it’s amazing.
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Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 days ago
Why the fuck does everyone want to be in sustained meaningful relationships?
Because they’re wonderful! And because you love someone.
Yeah, they can also go horribly wrong. I think that’s true of just about everything good - the more good it is, the worse it hurts when it goes wrong. But get it right, and it’s amazing.
loonsun@sh.itjust.works 5 days ago
Because relatedness is a fundamental psychological need and sustained meaningful relationships are the best way to achieve that
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 days ago
Can get that from a chat at the bar. Sustained meaningful relationships are the best way to lead to depression and severe physiological trauma. Fuck that shit.
loonsun@sh.itjust.works 5 days ago
You’re clearly in need of therapy and a proper support network, I hope you get the help you need before it’s too late
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 days ago
Ha. I’m American, we don’t have those things. Just rugged individualism.
HugeNerd@lemmy.ca 5 days ago
“physiological” trauma? Like diabetes from all the PDAs?
Psionicsickness@reddthat.com 5 days ago
Whoops. Typed too fast.