Comment on Why do people care so much that their friend or family member’s partner is attractive and not just loving?

• Gradually_Adjusting@lemmy.world ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Oh goddddd the dad thinks his kid needs to chase hotter dudessss I’m gonna die

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  • DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    “My son only accepts the HIGHEST QUALITY DICK, I taught him to know his worth!”

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    • SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

      I feel sorry for people who don’t have good hygiene.

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• volvoxvsmarla@lemm.ee ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  My mom and sister used to say my husband looks like he just got released from Auschwitz so I feel you 🫠

  Maybe it’s because your dad wants you to get a perfect person. Someone who is nice and loving and interesting and attractive and successful and rich and a good cook and volunteers and whatnot. My guess is not that they would prefer you to have someone handsome and unloving instead, but someone who is both handsome and loving. Because to them, you’re perfect. So they want you to have the (what they assume would be) perfect match. Most of this is probably not an active thought process but just some subconscious thinking.

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• Pacattack57@lemmy.world ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Set boundaries with your parents please. It’s not ok for them to disparage your future spouse.

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  • relation_anon4238@thelemmy.club ⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

    It’s just dad and a friend, thanks :) 😊

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