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pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks agoEh? How it will change the outcome?
CaptainCodeine@lemm.ee 3 weeks ago
Philharmonic3@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
It’s not about changing the outcome, it’s about stopping anxiety. This advice was given to me for use when feeling anxiety that is debilitating about a potential worst-case scenario which is usually unrealistic
pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Could be, but if there i not changing the most possible outcome, and this produces me anxiety, I dont know how this could stop it. Doing something could stop it, not doing anything will not stop anything…
Lv_InSaNe_vL@lemmy.world 3 weeks ago
Outcomes are rarely determined by your own thoughts about the situation.
It’s like being anxious about driving because you’re worried someone is going to hit you. As long as you’re being safe and careful, being an anxious mess isn’t going to make you any safer and it can even make things worse.
Of course I’m not trying to say “just stop being anxious!” but you have to understand that only ever thinking about the worst case scenario will hinder far more progress than it will help.
pr0sp3kt@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
Yeah, it’s a matter of possibilities, and yeah anxiety doesn’t help. As a cybersec specialist worst case scenario always have to be taken into consideration under the premise of realistic outputs. You have always be ready for the worse, do damage control and after the possible disgrace you have new lessons learned. “Control what you can, prepare for the worst, and move forward despite the risk.”