Quit discord last year. Moved my core friend group onto Signal.

Potential alternatives and their issues:

• Guilded: owned by Roblox, faces same data/privacy concerns
• Discourse: backed by venture capital, same as above
• Revolt: slow development, no game streaming, otherwise decent
• Matrix: high technical barrier of entry, but promising.

If you’re looking to kick discord as well:

For game streaming, try Parsec (with their echo cancellation trick)

For movie/video streaming, try Hyperbeam.