No need to apologize as you have been doing a stellar job. Your family needs to always take priority no matter what. I don’t care if it is down for a week as your health and kid are far more important.

One thing I will say is that I think Lemmy.zip could really benefit from a external way of communicating announcements. It doesn’t need to be complicated and you could reuse your existing mastodon account to post updates when things go wrong. It also could allow for users to give advise on how to fix issues.