Comment on How do people develop feelings for someone?

kamills@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• throwawaysalami@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  Okay I probably should’ve mentioned this. I most certainly do and can develop feelings for people but I just don’t know how to (for lack of a better word) make others see me for more than just a friend.

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  • naught101@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    I don’t thing you can make others do that. Just be yourself as much as you can (I know that’s not easy for some people), and don’t be a dick, and it’ll happen eventually.

    I think maybe coming at it obliquely is best. Don’t make it your main aim, because desperation is off-putting, but keep it in your awareness so that you catch it when it presents itself.

    Personally I found doing stuff with others based around a common interest the easiest way to meet people who had a similar world-view. And from there it’s easier to stumble upon people who might find you attractive. Getting mutually excited with someone about a shared interest can be pretty attractive.

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  • kamills@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Oh yeah that’s a different question. I had to work on my behaviours and get into the right friend circle of bad girlies, but that’s peolly hard to just stumble into

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