Comment on The best thing *you* can do for the fediverse is *just be kind*

AidsKitty@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

• Cris_Color@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I think a lot of folks immediately thought of something very specific when they saw my post, I really meant to be kind to the people you share this space with :). I feel like maybe it would have been best if I had left all these examples in my original post itself instead of moving them to the comments

  • Compliment people’s art and ask about their process
  • Teach people about something you’re knowledgeable on
  • Give constructive criticism on peoples projects when it’s welcome
  • Thank people for posting things you’re glad you got to see, tell them you enjoyed it
  • Tell people you’re glad they’re here
  • Tell people you hope they have a good day

  I moved them cause I wanted to keep my post succinct so folks would actually read it (I have a bad habit of being REALLY long winded lol. Can you tell? 😅) But I think they really exemplify what I was trying to get across, and leaving only the more challenging philosophical ideas like “approach people you disagree with with curiosity rather than hostility” I think kinda prompted people to misunderstand what exactly I meant.

  I can absolutely empathize with it getting harder to find common ground and build bridges. There’s no easy way to do that when more and more people think your humanity is up for debate. But I still think in this little corner of the internet, it’s worth trying our hardest to uplift the folks we sit shoulder to shoulder with :)

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