I was raised in a rural area. The amount of friends I made in life after forty years is…zero. Aside from a sibling, I don’t have anyone to count on. I am also too poor to afford visiting bars or other social things, so I can’t learn how to be around people, let alone establish ties. It is my belief that America’s shitty economy is the source of these issues, because a person can’t blossom if they don’t have the fiscal agency to escape a tiny bubble.
The internet let me develop as a person, but that can only go so far. I can’t afford risks, such as trying beer, an escort to lose my virginity, or travel. Poverty is a prison without walls.
fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 1 year ago
The internet should help with this, but we need to run our own stuff and not use corpo websites
Cethin@lemmy.zip 1 year ago
To an extent, but it isn’t a replacement. Talking to random strangers online is not the same as talking to real local people.
fluffykittycat@slrpnk.net 1 year ago
Indeed but it helps and doesn’t involve urban planning changes or anything that would take serious construction effort