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Also polyamory is not required for friends with benefits type of arrangement. There are plenty of people that have monogamous set ups that are still classified as friends with benefits. This is mainly done for safety from STDs and such. It’s just that nether party wants relationship responsibility of caring for your partners emotional needs.

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fuckyou1@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
what makes you think i don’t want romance or relationship or emotions?

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- lordnikon@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
  I didn’t say you didn’t but you don’t want commitment or the burden of a relationship as you put in your cons category. What you want based on what you said was you want intimacy and sexual connection but after you had your fill. You want the other person to fuck off and leave you alone. That by definition is a friend with benefits. They come hang out and if you both want to. you do intimate things then you or they leave.
  
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  - fuckyou1@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
    
    You want the other person to fuck off and leave you alone.
    
    how can you tell?
    
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    lordnikon@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago
    
    maybe it will make my life and me too real.
    
    in most if not all species, men become stupid because of women. spider men are eaten by spider women after they mate. i worry i will pick a bad woman to be stupid for.
    
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