are you able to meet standard hygiene practices (regular showers, brushing teeth, cleaning your clothing and your sheets regularly)?
are you able to carry on a normal conversation with a man? a woman? (the way you talk about women in this post makes me wonder if you talk to them in a way that makes it obvious that you just want to fuck them - this will immediately torpedo any chance you have with the vast vast majority of women)
do you have interests and hobbies outside of the internet and video games?
are you socially and emotionally developed enough to not share extreme or odd opinions in inappropriate contexts?
If the answer to any of those is “no” - that’s what you want to work on.
Probably, yes. It’s fine to like video games and shit posting online, but as someone’s only hobbies - well, for one it doesn’t make you stand out. Pretty much all men play video games as a major hobby.
It’s not that playing video games is bad but if that’s the first and only hobby you can name, it gives the impression that you’re the kind of person who spends all day trash talking on Rainbow Six or something.
A creative/productive hobby will make you infinitely sexier. I bet if you knit or crochet in public, you can even get a woman to approach you. Cooking is also another great one, and gives you a great excuse to invite someone over.
Like, trying to grow yourself will be beneficial whether you find a partner or not. Be the kind of person you would find interesting and want to be around.
andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
are you employed?
do you have your own place?
are you able to meet standard hygiene practices (regular showers, brushing teeth, cleaning your clothing and your sheets regularly)?
are you able to carry on a normal conversation with a man? a woman? (the way you talk about women in this post makes me wonder if you talk to them in a way that makes it obvious that you just want to fuck them - this will immediately torpedo any chance you have with the vast vast majority of women)
do you have interests and hobbies outside of the internet and video games?
are you socially and emotionally developed enough to not share extreme or odd opinions in inappropriate contexts?
If the answer to any of those is “no” - that’s what you want to work on.
zyratoxx@lemm.ee 4 weeks ago
Ohhhhh, so point 5 is why I am still single :')
andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
Probably, yes. It’s fine to like video games and shit posting online, but as someone’s only hobbies - well, for one it doesn’t make you stand out. Pretty much all men play video games as a major hobby.
It’s not that playing video games is bad but if that’s the first and only hobby you can name, it gives the impression that you’re the kind of person who spends all day trash talking on Rainbow Six or something.
A creative/productive hobby will make you infinitely sexier. I bet if you knit or crochet in public, you can even get a woman to approach you. Cooking is also another great one, and gives you a great excuse to invite someone over.
Like, trying to grow yourself will be beneficial whether you find a partner or not. Be the kind of person you would find interesting and want to be around.
fuckyou1@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
is this a website where autists give advice to other autists?
andros_rex@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
That does seem to be what you are looking for.
fuckyou1@lemmy.world 4 weeks ago
i am looking for autists?