When I visited Netherlands it was nice to not have to think about this while going out.

For your question, most people don’t get drunk. An average adult man can process about 1 drink an hour, so 2-3 standard drinks or less spread out over a game should be fine. You also kinda coordinate with your group to make sure someone’s good to drive.

If you’re all planning on getting drunk, you take Ubers. You can also come back in the morning for your car if it was unplanned