What kind of instance is lemm.ee trying to be? One for as many people as possible, one to appeal to a niche of people, or somewhere in the middle? I joined because I thought it was more of a generalist instance a la the first example, but if it’s trying to meet somewhere in the middle or towards a niche, I don’t think it’s serving the purpose I signed up for, so I would rather find a new instance that doesn’t defederate so easily.