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You hear of little kids talking about their favourite social influencing sex trafficker rapists like it’s socially acceptable now.
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shirro@aussie.zone 3 days agoI have two teenage boys. It is a worry.
I know that older men have been targettimg boys for over a decade now, seducing them with edgy memes and porn then exploiting their social awkwardness with appeals to misogyny which is a pipeline to other bigotry and the whole alt-right movement. Raeicalised young men are the emerging threat now as boomer power dies out.
You hear of little kids talking about their favourite social influencing sex trafficker rapists like it’s socially acceptable now. I worry that the social progress women have made is going to go backwards, perhaps a lot, and I have a daughter as well.
Despite being very competent gamers and consuming plenty of online media my boys seem to have escaped with their critical thinking intact so far. I don’t hover over them. They could be into stuff of course and I wouldn’t know. We have walked into this with our eyes closed.
maniacalmanicmania@aussie.zone 3 days ago
shirro@aussie.zone 3 days ago
Yeah, sorry. Its a bit much. I have seen school teachers frustrated with the situation…I don’t know how common it is.
Eyekaytee@aussie.zone 3 days ago
that’s just the tates
null_dot@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 days ago
Yeah so I have a son and daughter who are too young to encounter this stuff but I’m definitely concerned about it. I don’t have any experience at all in navigating this type of dynamic.
I suspect that in the coming years I’m going to realise just how difficult it is to maintain a relationship with your kids where you have some level of influence while simultaneously earning some level of respect, camaraderie, kinship, and ultimately have them share things with you. It kinda sounds impossible honestly.
I know that the fitness angle is also a recruitment tool used by these organisations. You know, come to the gym, learn to work out, learn kickboxing or whatever, acquire role models, be influenced.
I guess one strategy is to encourage relationships with better role models so they have a point of reference when they encounter someone with ulterior motives and differing views.