Comment on why do people say annoying/rude stuff and then tell you “it was a joke!”
Demdaru@lemmy.world 4 days ago“It’s just a joke” is perfectly valid, dammit. Once. After that, do not repeat it - you already know the person you aim it at doesn’t enjoy it.
cynar@lemmy.world 4 days ago
Nope.
It’s down to you to either read the room correctly or apologise for getting it wrong. You just don’t get judged too harshly for the first offence.