Comment on Why Gen Z Is Ditching Dating Apps

• EngineerGaming@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

  I was told that women are indeed horny after forming a deep emotional connection with somebody. Yet to experience that. Most men are just horny at nobody in perticular tho

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  • pebbles@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

    Women are very capable of being horny for horny’s sake.

    Women generally have to be much more selective for safety. The stats on sexual assault in US would astound anyone. Given how likely it is for a girl to be SA’d, or know someone who has, its no wonder they don’t openly express desire as much. Guys don’t have to worry about what happens if they change their mind at any poiny. At least not even close to the same degree.

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    • EngineerGaming@feddit.nl ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      Yeah, very fair points. Just that lacking this desire entirely is very consistent with my experience, so I still prefer to assume most women only “unlock” it under said conditions.

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    • Lauchs@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

      I think strip clubs are the counterpoint to “both sexes are equally horny.”

      Yes, male strip clubs exist but the vast majority are for people to ogle naked women.

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      • pebbles@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago

        I don’t think the status quo is good evidence. We do studies because we know how messy life is. You could just as easily be proving my point as you think you’re proving yours.

        Why do strip clubs exist? Idk, but it could be because men are more comfortable being sexual. As there is less shame in going to a strip club than working for one.

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