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hendrik@palaver.p3x.de ⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

Hmmh, I don't think we'll come to an agreement here. I think marriage is a good example, since that comes with lots of implicit consent. First of all you expect to move in together after you got engaged. You do small things like expect to eat dinner together. It's not a question anymore whether everyone cooks their own meal each day. And it extends to big things. Most people expect one party cares for the other once they're old. And stuff like that. And yeah. Intimacy isn't granted. There is a protocol to it. But I'm way more comfortable to make the moves on my partner, than for example place my hands on a stranger on the bus, and see if they take my invitation...

Isn't that ho it works? I mean going with your analogy... Sure, you can marry someone and never touch each other or move in together. But that's kind of a weird one, in my opinion. Of course you should be able to do that. But it might require some more explicit agreement than going the default route. And I think that's what happened here. Assumptions have been made, those turned out to be wrong and now people need to find a way to deal with it so everyone's needs are met...

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