In general agreed, but also depends on what the reason you gave on if you are a hypocrite.

IE if you said “I’m not opening this up to Chinese millitary use because I don’t want anyone to be killed using the tool I’ve made”.

on the other hand if your reason given was

“I am not opening this up to chinese millitary because I would fear they might use this against the US millitary”. then you at least aren’t bullshitting anyone.