Comment on Lemmy's gaining popularity, so I thought new people should see this.

• Monstrosity@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Hexbear is way worse, imo. Those folks will straight up harass dissenters. Stay away or maybe just stick to your gaming sub if you’re happy there.

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• Edie@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  This is the problem with hexbear: they lure you in with things like gaming and then you start agreeing with them that none should go hungry or homeless and once you realize it, you’ve become a trans redfash tankie gobbunist (/s)

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• Cowbee@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Hexbear has Marxists and Anarchists, it’s a non-sectarian “left-unity” instance. Lemmy.ml is admin’d and moderated by Marxists and some Anarchists. Similar, but different.

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• GiantChickDicks@lemmy.ml ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  I can only speak to my own experience. Most of their communities I’ve seen are not a place where nuanced views are appreciated. I saw a particularly 4Chanesque take where a guy was trashing a girl he dated for her interest in astrology. He was more than fine supporting it and humoring it while they were together. Once dumped, though, he had to use it as an example of everything he had to be tortured with in the relationship.

  I had a couple of things to say about that kind of attitude, but the whole of my response centered around learning to pick partners who are aligned with our own values and goals. They banned me because of my username. I have no idea why, other than making assumptions about my views and values in a negative way. A peep into my post history should suggest otherwise, but anyway.

  I don’t have a lot of respect for people with strong views that are sensitive about having them challenged. It isn’t a good faith argument.

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  • OpenStars@discuss.online ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    It isn’t a good faith argument.

    This nicely summarizes enormous portions of lemmygrad.ml, hexbear.net, and a lesser though still quite sizeable proportion of lemmy.ml.

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• OpenStars@discuss.online ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  The hexbear community predated Lemmy iirc, so they have existed in an isolated bubble for a very long time. Imagine edgy teenagers with an axe to grind and no particular reason to avoid grinding it on anything that they set their sights onto.

  Despite running off so much of their own community members, including some actual developers, they seem happy with the way they are. Sadly, they are also happy to spread out from their instance and fuck up everyone else’s day as well - rulez be damned. Notably, they continually keep floating the idea of defederating themselves from the rest of the Fediverse - I mean ofc those instances that have not already cut them off - so if that gives you an idea of what is going on (they are aware of their toxicity, they simply choose to not care).

  That particular community might be fine though. Or not. Either way it’s probably more tolerable than many hexbear users that you will see in general across the Fediverse. You’ll see for yourself.

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• honeynut@lemm.ee ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  the problem with hexbear is the same handful of users that have made it their hobby to complain incessantly about hexbear all over the fediverse

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• lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

  My experience: I saw a post on hexbear and only one view was present in the comments below… I did not know them then… So. I thought: Let’s share my view.

  In the end, I got blocked for arguing and they removed my comment. And the people who responded to my comment with burning flags of a country and wanted its total destruction had nothing to fear. It was the most disgusting experience I have ever had on Lemmy.

  But after they removed my comment, I understood why there is only 1 view present… Because the other view gets removed.

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  • Edie@lemmy.ml ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

    I wondered what you wrote, unfortunately it seems like it was on a different account as there is zero things in the (hexbear) modlog for this username.

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    • ToucheGoodSir@lemy.lol ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      The man, the myth… the fact checker

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      • Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

        …how you gonna call her male when she lists just about every pronoun in existence in her username EXCEPT for he/him?

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    • lemmydividebyzero@reddthat.com ⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago

      It was on a different account. I switched to an instance with downvotes disabled, because the experience on Lemmy started to feel too much like Reddit…

      But trust me: It did not even remotly justify posting burning flags of a country with mods supporting that. Actually, I’m surprised… I’d expect that this is still normal on hexbear. Can’t imagine, they changed that much in just 6 months…

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• MyOpinion@lemm.ee ⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago

  Hexbear is just as toxic as ml. They will bait you to comment on topics and then remove your comments if they don’t like them. Just a terrible group of people.

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