I think the concept of sexual cheating is obsolete and malignant psychological evolutionary flotsam that should be stamped out. That those who wish to reinforce its social presence should be bullied and ostracized for it.
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Katrisia@lemm.ee 1 week agoIf I were to do that, I’d probably do it for the money. I would get unfaithful followers (hard to pinpoint who because open relationships and other types of relationships exist, but statically, there will be), and that wouldn’t make it any less uncomfortable. I personally hate unfaithful/dishonest partners.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
Katrisia@lemm.ee 1 week ago
I disagree. Violence is not the answer, and especially not against people that are living in a way that doesn’t hurt others. If a couple (or polycule) wants to be sexually exclusive, they have the right to do so, and they do not hurt others because it’s not a social imposition for everyone.
interdimensionalmeme@lemmy.ml 1 week ago
Yes, I only applied as much force and violence as the normative consensus. I mean… not even close since they used to stone adulterers to death so.
I think claims in favour of sexual exclusivity enforcement need to be taken skepticism at minimum but ideally string opposition.
Also need to avoid mote and bailey arguments about this.
Crashumbc@lemmy.world 1 week ago
Men looking at boobs doesn’t make them unfaithful.
Eyck_of_denesle@lemmy.zip 1 week ago
Depends on your relationship
Katrisia@lemm.ee 1 week ago
It depends. Some relationships are open to pornography, others aren’t. Some are open to sexual intercourse outside their people, but others aren’t. It’s about consent and agreeing to live in a way that all needs are met.
That’s why I said it’s hard to know who is betraying their partner and who isn’t, because maybe a man or woman or whoever following an erotic/pornographic content creator is not outside what their partner(s) expect, or maybe they are. Still, I do not like people breaking their “contacts” instead of talking them out.