It could be an excuse to avoid the real reasons. If OP really wants to know the truth, he could ask one of the women who said this for be 100% honest with him about all the reasons she’s not interested.
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zante@lemmy.wtf 2 weeks ago
It’s a been a long long time since I was dating, anyone who turns you down and says “sorry you’re too thin” is best avoided to say the least.
In fact I’m having a difficult time believing you keep hearing it, because it’s so rude.
friend_of_satan@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
Today@lemmy.world 2 weeks ago
I believe it. My sons are tall and thin. People say things to them that they would never say to a short or heavy person! When they were younger, older women would offer to buy them food in bars, like they were thin because they were too poor to eat.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
Or it’s clearly just an excuse and there’s something else about OP
throwaway@discuss.online 2 weeks ago
Be it my weight, face, or my personality, it actually hardly matters. Bottom line: There is an ugly person who only wants to date attractive people, and by that he cannot get a partner. If that’s too much of a stretch for you, then there is no point explaining.
Kecessa@sh.itjust.works 2 weeks ago
So you’re mad that people have the same criterias you do?
throwaway@discuss.online 2 weeks ago
I am bitter about the fact I can’t find a partner, yes. That’s nobody’s fault. I perfectly understand and accept as to why. But yes I can still be bend out of shape about my loneliness.