Read the whole post, give it a serious shake. It cites child psychological studies, shows how kids today are healthily handling stories like these in Japan, and even acknowledges secondary trauma and avoiding triggers for already traumatized people. There’s a lot of nuance when you get past the title.
Comment on You Should Show Grave of the Fireflies to Your Kids
YourPrivatHater@ani.social 3 weeks ago
No you should not.
LiteralGrill@ani.social 3 weeks ago
riskable@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
Depends on how old your kids are… Are they old enough to understand suffering and loss? Then it’s time to make your kids suffer and lose some of their free time in order to learn something important; like any good parent!
LiteralGrill@ani.social 3 weeks ago
You’d rather have kids do it when they’re supervised and have love and support then when it is suddenly thrust upon them with no warning, that’s for sure.
yeather@lemmy.ca 3 weeks ago
No, they should have an older sibling who gives them a copy as a prank and all their friends come over to watch it.
YourPrivatHater@ani.social 3 weeks ago
No, you shouldn’t traumatize your KID, so anything below 14, its absolutely ok to show the movie to a young adult or teenager. A kid does understand what suffering is, but doesn’t understand the difference between fiction and reality very good.
Thats the same argument as with German fairytales, they aren’t made for kids, they are for teenagers and above.
LiteralGrill@ani.social 3 weeks ago
Ahem… The film is rated…
You’d know that if you read the post! Funnily enough, it also links out to an neat article discussing a study showing parents aren’t reading scary stories to their kids… And why that’s bad. Here it is just in case ya need it! Heck, on other bits of social media, I heard about schools showing kids the movie in 5th to 6th grade, in the US even!
YourPrivatHater@ani.social 3 weeks ago
Just because a rating agency says something doesn’t mean its appropriate, they have strict guidelines, these guidelines revolve around obscenitys, violence, drugs and similar, they don’t go on “may not be appropriate for children because the story itself is dark and sad” 12+ would be a ok rating in my opinion, again, its not meant for children, German fairytales aren’t either, even though they are classified differently.
Kids below a certain age cant even comprehend the story.
SRo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 weeks ago
A roflcopter parent
riskable@programming.dev 3 weeks ago
Even though it’s a fictional, animated depiction of what happened near the end of the WW2 it’s depicting something that actually happened. I don’t think there’s going to be any problems in regards to separating fiction from reality with this movie.
If anything, the movie is tame in comparison to the actual, real-world devastation of nuclear war.
YourPrivatHater@ani.social 3 weeks ago
Grave of the Fireflies isn’t about the nukes its about the firebombings and the part with fiction vs reality means that they don’t understand that this was a long time ago. As said its appropriate for 12+ in my opinion. But below its just not.
piccolo@ani.social 3 weeks ago
What about The Land Before Time??
YourPrivatHater@ani.social 3 weeks ago
Waaay less graphic, different implications, not a human character and different story circumstances. You could name Bambi while you are at it.