sneakypersimmon

@sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If you're sexually frustrated & can never find a mate & decide to live a life of "nofap," what are the effects that buildup of sexual frustration has?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I’m a woman to start.

  There’s two modes I’ve found myself in when not masturbating - I’m either purposefully staying aroused and denying an orgasm to heighten sexual tension and pleasure OR I’m not masturbating because life is busy for whatever reason and my libido diminishes over time.

  So it depends. And I think everyone is a little different as well, so you might want to play with not masturbating to reduce sexual frustration to see if it works for you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lazy rainy day in bed today⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Ah I had seen another comment referencing “beans” on these recent horny posts, so maybe I erroneously picked up on something that isn’t actually happening in the case of referring to women as “beans”.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lazy rainy day in bed today⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Calling women ‘beans’ really gives me the ick lol

  I’ve never seen that before Lemmy

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Lazy rainy day in bed today⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  All two of them?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Okay... so how do depressed people even have relationships? Did they get depresion after they already got into the relationship or did they actually went dating while having depression?⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  My partner has severe and persistent bouts of depression. We met on Tinder. Went out on a lot of dates together and had a lot of fun. Been together for about five years now.

  We also had a lot of talks about what living with depression means, what kind of support I would or could give, etc. What kind of coping methods they use. I’ve grappled with depression myself here and there so I’m incredibly empathetic when they’re feeling particularly bad. We just support each other.

  Depression can look really different and present differently in different people.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What are some interesting and fun things to do while you are doing cannabis?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Sex. Sex is really awesome while high on weed. Especially lazy, exploring each other’s bodies, no time schedule to keep type of sex.

  I’ll second Iced Raktajino and say house duties. I love getting a little high and tackling the kitchen or organizing the closets. Or cooking, cooking can be very satisfying while high.

  Walks! Going out for a walk is super lovely. Tune in to all the sounds of the trees, animals, neighbors, etc. Take note how the ground feels under your feet and the cool air in your lungs.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Reforming our education system is certainly one prong of a multi-pronged approach to a potential solution.

  I just simply cannot sign on for more torture and rape and dehumanization no matter who is on the receiving end.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  You’re so smart, you tell me what argument I’m making.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  What argument am I making?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Buying what?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Not with that defeatist attitude ;)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I thought we were having a casual conversation about this character of a user that has popped up on Lemmy again today and what it means to build a very personality-forward post history. I didn’t know we were doing a nuh-uh, yuh-uh thing.

  But ok.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I’ve got some extra Advil for your feefees, too!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  You had to really dig to find that info lol. Did you have fun?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah bro, I comment on Lemmy to gain self esteem, you got me. You’ve had it worse than everyone in the world and you’re allowed to wish death and torture on everyone. I’m not stopping you. Go for it, dude.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  …what?

  Hey man, sorry if you got real wrapped up in your crush on Violet or whatever and this is just too real for you hahaha

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Nah that’s your role evidently.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  now. every time i have sought help or justice, i have gotten fuck all. so explain if society (that includes all y’all fuckers) treats me like i’m worthless, i shouldn’t drive everywhere drunk and try to kill y’all when i travel. it’s a fair trade after all.

  Let’s just all kill each other until there’s nothing left then. Fuck it. Nuke it all. It’s a fair trade after all.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Lol the exact type of person I keep describing to you over and over again - A young, hot American woman who is “based” and uses her sexuality and raunchy humor to get her points of view noticed by the type of users that Lemmy attracts.

  Whether that person is the actual person behind the screen or a character they made up, who knows? But the character outline is very clear from her posts.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  fedinsfw is the new instance I’ve heard

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I don’t care that she’s horny - as I said, I wasn’t critiquing her. Her posts have a very particular flavor, so to speak, and it does revolve around her personality first and foremost. You immediately know what type of person that user is trying to portray when you look at the user history.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  That’s worked out real well for us so far, hasn’t it?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Ehh yes and no. A lot of users here are posting like news articles, comic strips, and the like that usually center around the news topic or political topic.

  Violet posts (so far) are strictly from the perspective of funny hot girl making commentary on the internet.

  This isn’t a critique, just an observation.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  No one should be forced to be in concentration camps and tortured and raped.

  I don’t give a fuck if it’s the biggest Trump supporter in the world.

  Wishing that kind of evil on people makes us just as evil as them.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Looking at her posts on the new account, she’s clearly playing as a young and hot woman who is “based” and uses raunchy humor to appeal to the crowds here. All 3 of the posts have this same perspective so far.

  Granted I didn’t catch a lot of her original account’s postings, just saw it here and there, but she is clearly posting her points of view.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Same energy as wishing conservatives were being tortured in the ICE concentration camps.

  It might feel good in the moment, but none of this is good for anyone. Not even those dumb enough to wish it on their enemies.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  The wanting to be accepted and adored by the men on Lemmy is probably true.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  I couldn’t put my finger on why I was side-eyeing all of that this morning, but you explained it perfectly in this comment.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨new instance, same me🫶⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  There are dozens of us! DOZENS!

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨hot girls hate fascism❤️‍🔥⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  Breaking news: women aren’t a monolith.