Wildmimic
@Wildmimic@anarchist.nexus
- Comment on Americans: How the hell do you meet new people or get into relationships after college? 5 days ago:
I agree on this. I just commented on my AvPD, which makes social contacts … complicated (just look in my comment history).
I haven’’t been without a partner since i was 18. Im 46 now, and newly out of a relationship (but we had a good run). I never actually tried to flirt with anyone. The only thing i really did is to listen well, make appropriate compliments and give my input. I don’t even look good, I’ve been a fat fuck since childhood and a nerd on top.
- Comment on Americans: How the hell do you meet new people or get into relationships after college? 5 days ago:
I’ve been told the same thing from my aunt, which moved into the countryside with her newlywed husband long ago. She only got to get friends after her firstborn got into school - the 8 years until that time were very isolating, even with work contacts.
- Comment on Poland Will Eventually Seek Its Own Nuclear Weapons, Tusk Says 5 days ago:
There are not so many options available to protect your country in the case of unwarranted aggression. Not that I am a fan of Iran’s government, but if they had a stockpile of nukes and capable missiles available to flatten Israel, they wouldn’t get fucking bombed by fascists to try to take away attention from their domestic issues today
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
Sadly the weather here sucks currently, but thanks. I hope you have a nice day.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
It’s not even distasteful, it’s simply honest. It is no secret that many men like young women, or else the “barely legal” category wouldn’t exist, and this theme is even completely in the open when the US Republicans push for lowering the legal age for marriage.
This exists in nearly every society, from the western “barely legal” porn theme over Mohammed having child wifes to japanese mangas which sexualize schoolgirls. It is therefor important to acknowledge that these impulses exist, make sure children are protected by law and to have a societal understanding that children are harmed if those impulses are made reality.
Those who suffer from having those impulses need ways to cope so that children are safe - either by offering therapy, “barely legal"-porn or “fauxbait”, without ostracizing those who choose these things over harming children. If a different label for the same thing helps to even keep one child safe it’s worth it. That would be a responsible way to deal with this situation.
It’s similar to those having a bad temper and aggressive impulses - giving those people an “out” by offering therapy, from competitive settings where they can live out their impulses (which can be anything from sports over video games to board games) to hitting each other with pool noodles and going into the woods to scream until their throats hurt.
All of it is simply channeling destructive impulses into non-harmful ways to cope, and only an open and honest discourse will help.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
You brought up the theme of porn preferences the moment you implied the downvotes have anything to do with “their porn will be limited”. If you say that everyone that downvotes that braindead take watches that stuff, get corrected, and then double down by insinuating that i watch “kiddy porn”, you will have to read what i actually watch.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
I just wanted to make clear that i do not have a horse in this race. I am slowly approaching an age where pornography as a whole simply isn’t that interesting anymore.
Also, for me personally it’s a question of ethics to prefer female friendly pornography - it’s still no 100% guarantee that everything is above board (i can’t exactly run background checks on everyone involved to make sure), but its important for me that my “consumption” is ethical in most areas of my life.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
Did you choose who you are attracted to or did you discover it?
You seem to mix some things up. There are pedophiles who have sexual attraction to children but know better, and there are people who rape children because they like the power imbalance.
The first group has simply discovered their attraction (and mostly beat themselves up over it) and would benefit from therapy and support, which they don’t get because of people like you. They also can benefit from things like “fauxbait”, where they can live out their kink without hurting anyone because there are only consenting adults in play.
The second group are in the Epstein files. They do it because they get off on the thought that someone is helpless. They are not pedophiles, they are simply the worst kind of rapist.
Make sure to direct your disgust on the second group, not the first, because the first one doesn’t deserve it.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
You know that there are people out there that can distinguish between a fantasy and reality? There are many people out there that have those fantasies that would never touch a 17 year old out of principle. This is a type of roleplay, and as long as there are only consenting adults in play, there is no harm done to anyone.
Denying that those impulses exist is one of the reasons that people who are real pedophiles cant get professional help without fear of persecution. Pushing them into illegality just for having those thoughts is not only not fair (because they don’t have a choice who they are attracted to), but also pushes them into the dark corners of society where they cant get help and the really illegal shit happens.
- Comment on MULTIVERSE has defederated fedinsfw.app for hosting child pornography 1 week ago:
I don’t watch that stuff, because i rarely look at pornography, and if i do, i prefer well developed bodytypes. But I will downvote anyone using a CP-scare to silence something legal.
Since there are only verified adults on display, there’s only one reason why someone cries for censuring - a moralin-drenched opinion and ignorance of other’s preferences.
People like this are the same who go after any type of media that doesn’t align with their own world view, and they always use censuring and hiding stuff for everyone, overstepping their limits and defining themselves as the only valid moral compass by which anyone should live - because they personally can’t cope with content they don’t agree with (mostly out of a misplaced sense of shame)
The same mindset empowers strongmen and populists in politics, who know exactly how to play those fools - with real life consequences (think pizzagate). This kind of behavior simply cannot be encouraged.
- Comment on Server randomly locked up. Trying to find out why 1 week ago:
That might introduce more issues than help. If high speed particles impact your shielding, you might get a “particle shower” from the impact on your electronics. Radiation Hardening is part of the design of the chips - mainly creating less dense structures with bigger transistors, because they don’t flip as easily as the very small gates on a H200. That’s also the reason why most space based computers have the processing power of a system around 2005.
- Comment on Name this Paper 1 week ago:
Categorizing how hard a cracker got burned by measuring its caloric output with water as intermediary.
- Comment on Turns out llms also have “artificial hive mind”, top AI models all say very similar sounding things, do you think that we can use this to detect bots? 1 week ago:
Well, they all crawled reddit and wikipedia a lot as training data, so you expect you’d get always the same mixture of fact and redditor.
- Comment on The same people who rage against authority love moderating communities where their ideology is the only one allowed 1 week ago:
If your opinion is that Age verification is a good thing or the Brave Browser isn’t a product of a company which has a right-wing homophobe as CEO then your opinion is colliding with hard facts.
Age Verification is simply deanonymization of the internet through the backdoor, raising a lot of privacy and cybersecurity questions. Paradoxically, it creates security risks for the children “being protected”.
Brendan Eich is NOT a good person. He is a verified homophobe , conspiracy theorist and his browser, even if it’s currently a good deal for the end user, is under constant pressure from shareholders to produce more revenue. It is therefore prone to enshittification in the future. Also, even if the browser blocks third party trackers by default, should you opt in to Brave ads, there is local behavioral tracking and tokenized reporting going on , which enables indirect tracking.
You have your right to your opinion. You don’t have the right to be shielded from criticism for your opinions, and it is the in the literal job description for a moderator to curb misinformation to ensure the health of a community.
- Comment on big facts 1 week ago:
Sounds a bit like if we die, we retreat into the human noosphere and become a concept instead of a person
- Comment on 390TB video game archive being taken offline due to skyrocketing RAM, SSD, and hard drive prices — AI-driven supply squeeze results in closure of one of the largest online video game archives 1 week ago:
My PS2 archive is around 2,9TB compressed, so “modern” is relative. PS3/XboxOne is a multitude of that.
- Comment on Device that can extract 1,000 liters of clean water a day from desert air revealed by 2025 Nobel Prize winner 1 week ago:
This thing works self-contained and off grid - using materials that have huge surfaces to condense the water. It is mentioned that there are powered versions too, but the principle itself does not need extra power, the Sun drives the condensation.
- Comment on Forgive me, Doctor, for I have sinned: I haven't watched anything Trek in almost 2 months 1 week ago:
Or go play the new Star Trek Voyager game! I really like it, just wish they had gotten more voice actors from the series.
- Comment on Server randomly locked up. Trying to find out why 1 week ago:
Wanted to say that - Random shit does happen, even to the most stable systems. There’s a cutoff in consumer hardware where selecting for more stability simply isn’t worth the cost such as radiation hardening. Best you can do is ECC Ram.
- Comment on Microsoft has etched palm-sized slabs of ordinary glass into data “books” capable of storing 4.8 terabytes — the equivalent of roughly 2M books or 200 4K movies 2 weeks ago:
The Microsoft Team cites Yuhao Lei, the researcher behind your article, 3 times - regarding the techniques of writing in different types of silica incl. polarization. So yes, it’s the continuation of the breakthrough.
- Comment on Roblox, Reddit and Discord users compelled to use biometric ID system backed by Palantir co-founder Peter Thiel 2 weeks ago:
Many don’t have the capacity left to make conscious decisions about these things - either they are already living paycheck to paycheck or it is too abstract for them to realize it might bite them and everyone else on a future date. Even if i have ideas for the first group that I have no power to make reality, I don’t have a solution for the second group either.
- Comment on When using rsync to backup my /home folder to an external 1TB SSD, I run out of space, how?? 3 weeks ago:
A second possibility is the deduplication feature of BTRFS. If you made copies of files on your SSD, they only take up space there when changing something - thats how i keep 5 differently modded Cyberpunk 2077 installations on my drive while only taking up a fraction of space that would be needed - I wouldn’t be able to copy this drive 1:1 onto a different filesystem.
- Comment on Video Games Need to Be Cheaper to Buy 3 weeks ago:
Atari 7800 Game Devs knew what’s up lol
- Comment on Video Games Need to Be Cheaper to Buy 3 weeks ago:
Same here, only exception: Baldurs Gate 3, because i loved the mindset of the devs and i knew from their prior games that they deliver quality.
- Comment on Do you ever feel guilty for trying to sign up for government assistance programs? 3 weeks ago:
Government assistance is simply the replacement for what society took from you, the option to sustain yourself by foraging. Society as a whole decided that they WANT people to not starve on the street. Get what you deserve.
- Comment on 64GB of DDR5 RAM now costs more than a MacBook Air - memory prices have surged 300% in just six months 3 weeks ago:
I agree. I recently swapped out my aging 2600x6core for a 5950x32core processor and upgraded from an 3070ti to a 5070 (well actually more of a sidegrade - my vram was simply too small). before this, my system had already a few years where there wasn’t much difference regarding gaming - In the current configuration and the glacial speed gaming developed i’d say i have a decade before upgrades are really needed.
- Comment on Let's take a moment to remember the time period when everyone had to adjust to using dual-joysticks on controllers. 3 weeks ago:
I switched between Gamepad and M/KB for inventory management because I haven’t seen an Inventory yet where mouse input isn’t faster.
- Comment on Let's take a moment to remember the time period when everyone had to adjust to using dual-joysticks on controllers. 3 weeks ago:
You’ve brought me some ideas how to reorganize my space in the future - I do have some 5m usb cables lying around and a cheap USB hub. I’m moving in the next few months, and I’ll keep that in mind, thanks
I love my cables too and am security-minded (and , buy my gamepad input isn’t exactly worth protecting except from embarrassment when I’m failing comically.
- Comment on Trump’s Gunboat Diplomacy Hands China a $55 Trillion Economic Edge 3 weeks ago:
It’s obvious why and how Trump bankrupted two casinos. He can’t stop stirring the pot when he should let it simmer, and doesn’t stir it when needed - and the only thing that motivates him is when something shimmers golden, regardless of it’s worth, while the real valuable things don’t attract his attention.
- Comment on she also happens to be best girl 3 weeks ago:
Translated Japanese VN names are sometimes ridiculously long and nearly always overly descriptive when accustomed to english titles. I understand that’s because it’s easier to sell manga this way in japan where you pretty much only have the title to get someone to buy your creation.