Vespair
@Vespair@lemmy.zip
Formerly @Vespair@lemm.ee
- Comment on We really don't want to talk about our problems 1 day ago:
A cursory glance implies a decent canoe starts at $2000, so my bank account is stopping me, at bare minimum
- Comment on Can it take months to get over being laid off? 3 days ago:
I think you’re asking the wrong question. It can take months, years, hell even a whole lifetime to get over something like that. Or maybe you’ll never get over it!
The question you should be asking isn’t “is feeling this way normal,” it’s “what can I do to approach this healthier?” It’s not about what’s normal or understandable, it’s about what you can do with your own autonomy to improve your condition.
And on that, personally I would start by finding and speaking with a counselor who can help you process your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to achieve a sense of clarity and empower yourself to confident decisions moving forward.
- Comment on The duality of mothman 2 weeks ago:
Moths like lights. Somebody noticed.
Now you’re all caught up.
- Comment on YouTube relaxes moderation rules to allow more controversial content. Videos are allowed if "freedom of expression value may outweigh harm risk" 3 weeks ago:
People have literally never had to say that.
First off it was Tiktok, not YouTube, that started the “unalived” trend, but even then make no mistake, “killed,” “murdered,” “died,” etc has never been banned on tiktok either.
What has been happening is that videos (on tiktok) with “potentially divisive content” are not being promoted by tiktok. You video will not get removed just for saying the word “killed” and will still be fully available for viewing by your followers, it just won’t be promoted on the For You page for strangers.
And it’s fine if you still object to this, but we have to stop conflating the two. Not being promoting is not the same thing as being censored.
- Comment on Press F to pay respects 3 weeks ago:
For those looking where to head, here’s where I picked.