Vespair

@Vespair@lemmy.zip

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Can you believe it?⁩ ⁨⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  Not if you tell the officer that you’re a cop too and you were screaming “Wee-ooo-wee-ooo” so you’re allowed to speed too, then they have to let you go.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨He'll realize one day⁩ ⁨⁨20⁩ ⁨hours⁩ ago⁩:

  Yep, exactly what confirmed it for me

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨He'll realize one day⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  Imo it looks like the back wall of a Spencer’s-type novelty shop rather than a sex shop

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Everybody gets one [choose wisely]⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  This is a small one, but can you please make it so that all menu descriptions actually list all the major dish components so I’m never surprised by secret onions or mustard again?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  It also has the most boring combat. I’ve still struggling to finish the first FF7R because I keep falling asleep during combat

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  If you are so pedantic so as to not consider the support for the banister as part of the banister, then frankly I have no interest in the necessary effort required to discuss this or any matter further with you.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  If our view was from the top looking down at the bottom then the banister would be rotated 90 degrees towards us.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  lemmy.zip/post/43413172/20045941

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I guess I should address the “wear” on the carpet as well: it doesn’t look worn to me, it looks disturbed. Like before this person tried shoving their mattress up the stairs and got it stuck, they carried a heavy dresser or or something up the stairs and dragged it up each stair, sliding it along the carpet. I suspect this is a person moving into a cheap efficiency apartment, since the one my father moved into last when he was still alive looked extremely similar.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  My stairs don’t have a visible ledge. I don’t know why people are acting like that’s standard. I think only one of the homes I’ve lived in has had a stairwell with ledges.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  My guy, the banister.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Carpet is softer and more enjoyable to walk on than hard floors. I will never understand this weird anti-carpet trend we’ve gotten into in the past decade, except that it’s the same thing as grass lawn emulating the wide expanse of the wealthy.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Perspective⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  How are y’all arguing this? The banister makes it unquestionably obvious that it’s at the top. There’s no debate to be had here unless the banister was intentionally installed wrong just for the purpose of this meme, which would be crazy.

  The mattress is at the top, y’all.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We really don't want to talk about our problems⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I think we’re gonna have to call this one a skill issue actually, as I don’t think I can discretely put a canoe into my pocket so I’m sure how you expect me to actually get from canoe acquisition to open seas without arrest.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Milking dust⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  In general I feel like I’m more likely to want to revisit and spend more time in the world of a good book than the world of most films, even films I enjoy, so it makes sense to me that there’s enough to easily fill two books worth.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Milking dust⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I saw the first Jurassic Park. I enjoyed it. But I feel sated with that single entry. If you love these movies, more power to you, but I don’t really understand it myself.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Viewers like you⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Honestly even the over-the-top caricature that he is is still well-meaning and mostly decent, just jealous. Like literally even their worst case boogyman version is… Mostly fine?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We really don't want to talk about our problems⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  A cursory glance implies a decent canoe starts at $2000, so my bank account is stopping me, at bare minimum

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Can it take months to get over being laid off?⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I think you’re asking the wrong question. It can take months, years, hell even a whole lifetime to get over something like that. Or maybe you’ll never get over it!

  The question you should be asking isn’t “is feeling this way normal,” it’s “what can I do to approach this healthier?” It’s not about what’s normal or understandable, it’s about what you can do with your own autonomy to improve your condition.

  And on that, personally I would start by finding and speaking with a counselor who can help you process your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to achieve a sense of clarity and empower yourself to confident decisions moving forward.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The duality of mothman⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Moths like lights. Somebody noticed.

  Now you’re all caught up.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨YouTube relaxes moderation rules to allow more controversial content. Videos are allowed if "freedom of expression value may outweigh harm risk"⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  People have literally never had to say that.

  First off it was Tiktok, not YouTube, that started the “unalived” trend, but even then make no mistake, “killed,” “murdered,” “died,” etc has never been banned on tiktok either.

  What has been happening is that videos (on tiktok) with “potentially divisive content” are not being promoted by tiktok. You video will not get removed just for saying the word “killed” and will still be fully available for viewing by your followers, it just won’t be promoted on the For You page for strangers.

  And it’s fine if you still object to this, but we have to stop conflating the two. Not being promoting is not the same thing as being censored.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Press F to pay respects⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  For those looking where to head, here’s where I picked.