SuluBeddu

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• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How much is the fish?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  There’s a german techno band called Scooter, they made a song called How Much is the Fish, and another one called the phrase I wrote

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How much is the fish?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨day⁩ ago⁩:

  The question is what is the question

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has this ever happened to you?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I just really have to say that in my experience and for what friends have told, that is simply not a realistic concern in my mind

  As for it being “more common” than abuse, I just have your word for it. And I simply don’t believe it. Because female friends talking about sexual abuse is something both more taboo and more frequently happened to me, than male friends telling me they had to jump a date because the girl was a gold digger.

  Hence our difference of views on this

  Ofc my suggestion is not to date people until you know them a bit, if that’s so common in your life.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has this ever happened to you?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Yeah… you see, exactly because people who think like you exist, women have to look for clues right away that they are not going to date a misogynist…

  Women need protection when meeting with strangers, basically all women have life experience that make them feel they need it. I’m sure you as a guy are able to take no for an answer, but your date doesn’t know that yet, and it takes just one guy who doesn’t to ruin a woman’s dating experience and possibly her health and safety.

  I do know women who don’t feel that need, but that’s mostly because they are ignoring their own and their friends’ past experiences. It’s their choice ofc, but it’s universally accepted among women that it’s not a strange thing to do, in fact is the safest thing to do.

  If some women then abuse that need to try to freeride, it’s another discussion, and as a guy I would simply drop the date if I were in that situation. But the need exists, it is valid, and not validating this need to your date will raise a red flag.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has this ever happened to you?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I see… Yeah I’m pretty sure that in such a case, where I’m expected to pay, not even asked to, I would definitely cancel, be it one or two people… This is so uncommon in m6 experience that I didn’t even think that could be a case

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has this ever happened to you?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Mh is he not showing he’s annoyed by her friend tagging along? And why bringing money up?

  I mean, if it were happening to me, where I live, I wouldn’t even think she was going to expect me to pay not even for herself, and if she ends up expecting or pressuring me, I just know she’s not the one. What’s there to be scared of? Worst case scenario I just leave my part on the table and go away

  I know of memes about women going to first fates just to have nights out without paying, but it’s very far from what I see happening where I live, and I suspect it’s just manophase echo chamberism. Because, again, one can just put their part on the table and leave, and perhaps date within one’s social circle so to avoid this kind of social distortion

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Has this ever happened to you?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Dude showed he’s annoyed seeing girl seeks protection, by calling the friend RoboCop, and implied she might have wanted him to pay for both, putting carriage before horses.

  What you say literally can often show what you think inside, and in a first date scenario every sign will be interpreted

  For example, not showing much respect for the female need for protection on a first date can mean dude doesn’t think women have reason to feel unsafe

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨A cat/sheep hybrid⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  William Shatner is that you

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨That's an impressive drop. Any ideas why?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Aside from who backs these studies and how is data collected, my real question is why do we really care, like, is that really some issue?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨la cars 2 no es canom.⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  Oh, that true? I should catch up

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨From Snoop Dogg to Lap Dogg⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  movie literally talks of time distortions

  kids would be confused about a kiss

  Sure

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨‘Star Trek: Enterprise’ Cast On How Series Was Last Hurrah For “Boys Club” TV Before Me Too Movement⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  I read B’elana as a point that the chief engineer doesn’t always need to be some composed nerd. Even a person with deep anger control issues, with interest in (Klingon) religion, can be a good fit for that position and can stand her ground to a literal Borg.

  Plus ofc Janeway + B’elana and + 7 later, meant that most science-related decision were made by a group of women.

  But as everyone on the cast, once 7 and doctor were out, the screentime was really compressed 😶

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨PSA on privuhcy⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Difference being that the ? in URLs separates the resource from additional information

  So unless some website decides to identify the resource in those query field (for example search results pages in a web search), you are generally safe

  In any case, messaging apps will try to navigate to the site to create a caption for your message, and that can be a way to check if it works or not

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨BRB, Eating Pierogi with the penguins⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  They’re only Pol-ish

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨We'd like to welcome our newest Student to Hogwarts, Hun-Gary Mc'Spud.⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Giovanni Espresso

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨You swallowed your siblings!⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I meant more for the meme. Like, a meme with a guy rather than a woman

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨You swallowed your siblings!⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I mean sure, thing is it’s pretty rare to find it with a guy

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What Could Go Wrong? App to help parents find childcare on demand⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Mh, perhaps there can be a partial “Lemmy contrarian” side to the story, probably because we are used for stuff in private companies to become monopolies and ruin the availability of good service in general, out of greedy dividend-focused choices monopolies do

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨What Could Go Wrong? App to help parents find childcare on demand⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I guess the question is if that’s the correct way to do or if we’d prefer public investments on childcare

  Like, are the people in June Care background checked? You know to avoid bad service before some parent has a terrible experience

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Unpopular popular opinion - fiat⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Not to mention that currency from a specific country is valuable if others are interested in investing there or in their products

  As less and less governments and banks want to invest in the US, they lose interest in selling products in dollars, since the US doesn’t produce much anymore, just services

  So they create currency in absolute value, but in terms of real buying power they are dependent on the opinions of the rest of the world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨does captain Picard snore in Star Trek tng?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Especially if Data was watching over him

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Do it⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Shivers in my ass

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨At least Quark had some integrity.⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Most handsome capitalist I know

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨^_^ I just think skibidibi sounds neat :3⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  (づ￣ ³￣)づ

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨my dreams in colour⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Star trek specist porn

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Divided and conquered⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Many that fight for civic rights, also fight the class war, protesting for both

  Civil rights are actually a good platform to spread social awareness

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Apple is once again advertising on X after more than a year⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Ouch xD

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Apple is once again advertising on X after more than a year⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Actually last time I checked apple did their keynotes mentioning the environment and stuff, greenwashing their choices… I’m curious what they’ll do now.

  Just like Tesla, they might have saturated their liberal userbase, I wouldn’t be too surprised if they took a more “neutral” stance

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Apple is once again advertising on X after more than a year⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Actually about Gates, does anyone know about his stance on the current fascist takeover?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨"Star Trek is dying." How would you sell it to a younger audience?⁩ ⁨⁨7⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Exactly, you need a specific setup to enjoy it, and you need to give it focus!

  I don’t think that making content specifically to be liked by people who wouldn’t enjoy the typical style is a good concept… It can be explored sure, but they also need to make sure to make new trak-like content too

  But again I really need to see discovery and snw to see how things are going right now. I also don’t want to judge the s31 movie before watching it