WingedObsidian

@WingedObsidian@sh.itjust.works

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Fun/interesting things to self host?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Thanks for the heads up! I’ll keep that on my radar. It would be unfortunate if the rumbles are true

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Fun/interesting things to self host?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  Headscale with headplane UI for access across servers Openwebui for LLM stuff with tika for doc processing Nextcloud for data and such Immich(migrating away from photoprism) for better photo management and phone upload Caddy for reverse proxy

  Not used as much: Monica for contact management Mealie for its ease of importing recipes

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨How does a guy become his most confident around women?⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Don’t see interactions with women as goals. Understand that women have very frequent and awkward interactions with men. Don’t be afraid to show your quirky side/passions. Befriend the friends. Just shut up and listen. Follow the flow of convo and ask questions when they get excited about the things they want to talk about. Understanding that women are not going to be interested in the same things you find attractive most of the time (such that women get enough attention that they instead prioritize emotional relationships, most times not all ofc). Recognize when to step away and give space/not interested. Recognize the timing for asking her number and planning a date. Most will wait for you to take initiative.