confusedpuppy
@confusedpuppy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
- Comment on How long do you keep your backups? 4 days ago:
I generally have Operating System backups that are stored on the same drive. Those backups are immediately copied to 3 different devices, my computer and two other drives
The backup on the local drive is useful for when I’m tinkering, making adjustments, adding or removing stuff. Restoring from that local backup is far more convenient than using the remote backups
I don’t use anything with a database so all my static media files and wiki’s don’t go to the local backup. I handle them separately but they are still spread across the 3 other devices in my network
- Comment on Self-Host Weekly (2 October 2026) 2 weeks ago:
Further down this comment chain I explain why I feel AI is causing so many issues.
The blog post linked but the user lepire does an even better job explaining how AI destroys online communities.
Personal convenience should not come at such a deep and destructive cost.
I’ve been on the internet since 1998 and I’ve watched slowly as big money and bigger tech companies slowly destroy everything that made the internet inclusive and weird. I’m sure people who have had access to the Internet for longer than myself would have even more to say about the current state of the internet.
- Comment on Self-Host Weekly (2 October 2026) 2 weeks ago:
It’s completely overwhelming how many new projects there are that are full of AI/LLM code and documentation. AI has also crept into existing projects, including those that deal with security or encryption. It’s even in Linux now. This is all incredibly troubling from an outside perspective.
It’s dangerous to live on top of so many layers of abstraction. If we don’t understand our tools and machinery, they will not be useful to us when they eventually break. And all things eventually break. Just because it exists and is available, does not mean it is good, acceptable or safe to use.
It’s very saddening that the ethical issues about the use of AI is constantly being pushed to the side of every conversation. It’s frustrating to deal with people who are Pro-AI that are consistently rude and condescending. It’s frustrating for Pro-AI people to consistently ignore a person’s question to aggressively push more AI products on other people. This behaviour has killed any sense or feeling of community.
This technology didn’t always exist. This technology doesn’t need to have such complete control over our future. It is completely acceptable for people to seek AI free alternatives and not be treat like they are troublesome idiots.
All the rage and insecurities in the world won’t erase people’s desire to feel community and express their humanity. It’s a shame that the few who are angry and insecure are also incredibly fucking loud.
- Comment on Self-Host Weekly (2 October 2026) 2 weeks ago:
I’ve lost all motivation to continue any sort of self-hosting. AI/LLM has crept into every corner of the internet. It’s killed the community vibe I once grew up with. There’s a certain lifelessness with these projects and the internet as a whole that’s hard to describe but it’s just not fun anymore.
I’m in the progress of changing my hobby to be more offline. Writing my own code for my own purpose and entertainment. I’ll still host my code on Codeberg. Codeberg, this Lemmy account and that one
bashfocused discord server will be my entire online presence going forward. Whatever happens, happens and I won’t feel a loss about losing access to any of those things.Capitalism and the forces that promote or enable capitalism just exploits everything until there is no life, fun or joy left…
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 3 weeks ago:
I use Alpine Linux so yeah, I am using something by Linux
It’s not ideal but I don’t have the time to find alternatives for everything all at once, just one thing at a time which is the pace I am going. I’ll deal with it when the time comes but it’s in the back of my mind
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 3 weeks ago:
I don’t expect perfection out of anyone. I would not make friends if I held them to such high standards or expectations. Everyone learns, adapts and grows at their own pace and I would do better to support them along the way through their journey
Myself and the people around me are doing our best in this situation we are in with the tools that are currently available to us
I don’t believe trying to reduce the complex human experience to 100% right or 100% wrong will lead to any useful discussion when there’s so much in the middle we could be discussing
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 3 weeks ago:
That’s true, it CertBot seems to be quite mature
It was a bit overwhelming for me when I first started into self hosting, there were a lot of concepts that I had to wrap my head around first before I could look into using CertBot itself
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 3 weeks ago:
Awesome, thanks so much, this is a big head start for me
I have a good idea how I want to organize things now
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
I definitely expect this path to be a bit of a challenge
I was looking at lighttpd as well. That was the only one on the list that sounded familiar to me. I may check it out and see if it can fit me needs. I do run a very minimal setup so I might just be enough.
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
I also make use of Caddy’s built in file server to serve static pages so this is good to know about HAProxy
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
Thank you, I’ll have a look at lego-acme, it looks interestingly. I prefer to use cron so this is could be something I would consider using.
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
This is great, thank you for taking the time for this write up :) The provided scripts are a huge help to me
So far my only question I have is about the directories you use. I was wondering if you could provide the directories you use or even just an example so I could better understand the file tree. I’m very particular with my files and have a whole system dedicated to maintaining neat and organized files
I agree about not using /etc for server related stuff. I keep all my server/container related stuff in /srv so it’s easier for me to manage
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
I’ve used NPM before and it is quite simple and easy to use, however I do have a preference for CLI tools
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
Impossible? There are people who still write code by hand. There are people who oppose AI, some more actively (or destructively) than others.
Harder to avoid seems like a more reasonable take.
However I am coping, by actively seeking, talking about and supporting alternatives with the hope of spreading that knowledge to those who would like to avoid the use of AI or enable those who support AI.
Human creativity has a much longer and far more interesting history when compared to AI or machine learning. AI hasn’t always existed and does not need to have complete influence over our future.
- Comment on Looking to move from Caddy 4 weeks ago:
I personally feel like taking money from an AI sponsor is enabling behaviour. From that perspective, I do not want to support that type of behaviour.
- Submitted 4 weeks ago to selfhosted@lemmy.world | 45 comments
- Comment on please recommend a simple selfhosted photo gallery 4 weeks ago:
I don’t think you are in the wrong here. You clearly stated your wants and so many replies here have simply ignored what you have said. The response to your post has been strange
- Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 4 weeks ago:
How would trace the echo reply in the output chain? I tried adding
meta nftrace set 1directly to the ICMPv4 rule as well as making achain postroutingrule but I can’t seem to figure it out. - Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 4 weeks ago:
The default policy for output is accept so I’m assuming I don’t need to explicitly add ICMPv4 rules to the output chain. As a test I did add the ICMPv4 rules to the output chain and I still have the same results as before.
I can confirm that the server is receiving the ping requests but my computer sending the pings loses the ping packets.
- Comment on Local homeserver suddenly not responsive to SSH but can be pinged 4 weeks ago:
Aah you did mention that, my eyes just decided to skip that when I read your post.
This reminds me of another issue I ran into but I use Alpine Linux so I don’t know if it’s a distribution specific issue. I’ll share the issue and workaround solution anyways as something to consider.
Networking on Alpine Linux is controlled by a process called
networkingand for reasons I don’t understand and can’t see by any logs, it just stops working. I can’t ssh or access the reverse proxy port. I don’t remember if ping was working or not as it’s been a while since I dealt with it now.My work around was to have a script on my server ping a known location and restart
networkingif it couldn’t ping out. If a second ping after restarting the process failed, it would then restart the device. This script would run every 15 minutes.It’s a bandage solution that doesn’t solve the problem but it does keep my server running. However it seems like pings still work with your server so you might need to get creative in how you test your server’s connectivity.
- Comment on Local homeserver suddenly not responsive to SSH but can be pinged 5 weeks ago:
It sounds to me like
ssdhmay have stopped working. That may explain why you can’t ssh into your server but pings still respond. I have a Raspberry Pi4 and a Pi5 and have had similar issues in the past.I would probably approach this issue by writing a small script that checks every so often if the process
sshdis still alive and if not restartsshd. Maybe SystemD can so something similar but I am not familiar with SystemD. - Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 5 weeks ago:
I didn’t think to try ping6. It looks like I can reliably get responses from ping6 but not ping4
The server can ping other devices on the same network just fine
Also, I’m glad you mentioned
syslog. I couldn’t figure out logging and it turns out I had to add the syslog package to my server to get logging working - Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 5 weeks ago:
I tried what you said. I sent a ping from my computer to the server and this was the output of
nft monitor trace:trace id 1d01c81e ip ping_trace prerouting packet: iif "eth0" ether saddr b0:7d:64:e8:8f:3c ether daddr d8:3a:dd:de:28:99 ip saddr 192.168.40.201 ip daddr 192.168.40.203 ip dscp cs0 ip ecn not-ect ip ttl 64 ip id 65074 ip length 84 icmp type echo-request icmp code 0 icmp id 35586 icmp sequence 0 trace id 1d01c81e ip ping_trace prerouting rule icmp type { echo-reply, echo-request } meta nftrace set 1 (verdict continue) trace id 1d01c81e ip ping_trace prerouting policy accept trace id 1d01c81e inet filter input conntrack: ct direction original ct state new ct id 271120081 trace id 1d01c81e inet filter input packet: iif "eth0" ether saddr b0:7d:64:e8:8f:3c ether daddr d8:3a:dd:de:28:99 ip saddr 192.168.40.201 ip daddr 192.168.40.203 ip dscp cs0 ip ecn not-ect ip ttl 64 ip id 65074 ip protocol icmp ip length 84 icmp type echo-request icmp code 0 icmp id 35586 icmp sequence 0 trace id 1d01c81e inet filter input rule ip protocol icmp icmp type { echo-reply, destination-unreachable, echo-request, time-exceeded, parameter-problem } accept comment "Accept ICMP" (verdict accept)
I sort of get what’s happening and it looks like the ping request has been accepted.
From my computer when I send a ping it shows:
15:55 dell:/tmp/ $ ping -c1 192.168.40.203 PING 192.168.40.203 (192.168.40.203): 56 data bytes --- 192.168.40.203 ping statistics --- 1 packets transmitted, 0 packets received, 100% packet loss
So even though it’s being accepted, I still get nothing going back to my computer, at least that’s how I understand it.
- Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 5 weeks ago:
I’ve been checking my rules with
nft -c -f /etc/nftables.d/firewall.nftas well as checking the ruleset after every change and every change appears as it should. I’m stumped. Even more stumped because just allowing all traffic still doesn’t allow me to ping my server but I can access ssh, wireguard and my reverse proxy just fine. I would have assumed allowing all inbound traffic would also accept ping requests too… - Comment on nftables: Can't ping my own server 5 weeks ago:
I tried your suggested rules and still nothing
I went a step further and simply enabled all incoming connections with:
table inet filter { chain input { type filter hook input priority 0; policy allow; } }
Again I can connect with SSH and WireGuard but I still can’t ping my server. If I restore to my last backup with iptables, I can get a response from ping again.
I also tried directly translating the rules from iptables with:
iptables-save > /tmp/iptables.dump iptables-restore-translate -f /tmp/iptables.dump > nftables.dump
and adding the rules:
#!/usr/sbin/nft -f define WIREGUARD_PORT = 51820 define WIREGUARD_ADDRESS = 10.0.0.0/24 define SSH_PORT = 5025 define SSH_ADDRESSES = { $WIREGUARD_ADDRESS . $SSH_PORT, 192.168.40.204 . $SSH_PORT } define PUBLIC_PORTS = { 5050 } table inet filter { chain input { udp dport $WIREGUARD_PORT accept \ comment "Accept WireGuard connections" ip saddr . tcp dport $SSH_ADDRESSES accept \ comment "Accept SSH connections from known devices or WireGuard" tcp dport $PUBLIC_PORTS accept \ comment "Accept public connections" icmp type echo-request limit rate 5/second burst 10 packets counter accept icmp type echo-request limit rate 30/minute burst 120 packets counter accept icmp type echo-request limit rate 1/minute burst 2 packets counter log prefix " PING-PONG-FLOOD " icmp type echo-request counter drop icmp type destination-unreachable counter accept icmp type time-exceeded counter accept icmp type parameter-problem counter accept icmp type echo-request counter accept } chain forward { icmp type destination-unreachable counter accept icmp type time-exceeded counter accept icmp type parameter-problem counter accept icmp type echo-request counter accept } }
and still no ping from my server…
I will agree, the documentation for nftables is just not as accessible or consistent as iptables. It’s a bit frustrating.
- Submitted 5 weeks ago to selfhosted@lemmy.world | 14 comments
- Comment on What is your cloud backup solution? 1 month ago:
That’s fair
I have a very different view on data, physical property and familial relationships. Everything is temporary to me and I’ve prefer my stuff to be reused rather than act as an archive to my own life.
My pictures, music and technology related projects are just for myself. Anything I wish to share after my death is stored on an unencrypted drive connected to a Raspberry Pi that acts as my web facing server that serves only static data. It’s mainly a bunch of wikis, linux/shell scripting references, some of my git repositories, some survival type ebooks and some other random stuff.
I’ve lost data multiple times throughout my life so I know I’d be disappointed but not sad if I lost all my data one more time. I do have multiple backups now so I at least have some data resilience compared to the past.
- Comment on What is your cloud backup solution? 1 month ago:
I am the same way. My backup is on the other side of the room. If my house goes up in flames, I’ll have bigger issues to deal with, like my house going up in flames.
Data is just data. It wasn’t there when I was born and it’s all encrypted now so when I die, I want the next person to wipe it clean and use the hardware for themselves.
Having a backup is convenient but it’s not the end of the world if I lose it.
- Comment on Do you participate in this hobby without a formal IT education or a career in a 2 months ago:
I was just a cable runner, I just happened to work with a lot of different trades. I learned a little bit from every trade
- Comment on Do you participate in this hobby without a formal IT education or a career in a 2 months ago:
I used to work as an electrician in the automation industry (robots that welded the frame of automobiles) but I was only an apprentice. I worked alongside robot and PLC programmers and absorbed information through them. I lost the motivation to finish my apprenticeship due to a changed perspective on the harmful affects of too much progress. That was as close as I got to any coding.
I decided to enjoy a mid-life retirement after protesting my way into getting fired which gave me time to explore hobbies. Along the way I ended up buying a used Raspberry Pi 4 and 5 and found some joy in both self hosting and shell scripting. Fortunately shell scripting supplements self hosting. I have been slowly crafting a low resource, low maintenance, minimal server.
Both Pi’s run Alpine Linux, the Pi 4 is dedicated to HomeAssistant which controls a handful of lights and switches. The Pi 5 runs Caddy and Kiwix. Right now it just hosts a bunch of wikis and a static file server with Caddy. Eventually I plan to run a blog created only by a single Bash script.
This is all completely outside of any workplace skill and I think I’d like to keep it that way. Programming for money would likely kill the wonder I still have for computers.