thefactremains

@thefactremains@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨do you apologize, even if it's not your fault just to make the other person feel validated?⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨week⁩ ago⁩:

  You don’t need to apologize to take ownership of your impact.

  When partners acknowledge how their words and actions affect the other (regardless of intent) they make the relationship safer, more responsive, and more connected.

  Ownership is acknowledging the effects of your behavior, not absorbing all blame or excusing harmful behavior from either partner.

  It sounds like “When I did X, the impact on you was Y…here’s what I’ll do differently,” which lowers defensiveness and invites collaboration on solutions.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨X CEO Linda Yaccarino is now ex-CEO⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Pronounced “not CEO”

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨If I found voter irregularities in my home district do I have to hire a lawyer to prove it.? Or just let it go and the Florida Orange win?⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Also because it’s an effective way to prove you voted a certain way to a vote buyer.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Every week has WTF in it (MTWTFSS)⁩ ⁨⁨4⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  These days, every damn day has WTF in it.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Recommend EU webhosting provider to replace DreamHost?⁩ ⁨⁨5⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  Hostinger is the closest I can think of. They do have limits but they are very high for the price (which is actually true of dreamhost too, they just aren’t honest with you until you hit them).

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Apple refuses to break encryption, seeks reversal of UK demand for backdoor - Ars Technica⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  This is the closest you’ll get to proof I would imagine.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Why build for tomorrow when it's someone else's tomorrow?⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  They would never build for you because you will teach them by example to build for their descendents.

  “A society grows great when old men plant trees in whose shade they know they shall never sit.”

  • ancient Greek proverb
• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Two conversational AI agents switching from English to sound-level protocol after confirming they are both AI agents⁩ ⁨⁨6⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  This is dumb. Sorry. Instead of doing the work to integrate this, do the work to publish your agent’s data source in a format like anthropic’s model context protocol.

  That would be 1000 times more efficient and the same amount (or less) of effort.