vapeloki

@vapeloki@lemmy.world

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The joy of going through pregnancy along with your sister⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  This comment brought me to: yes, there should be an AMA!

  Srsly, polyamorous relationships are a complex beast. And no, they are not better or worse then other relationship models. They are just different.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The joy of going through pregnancy along with your sister⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I am open to such an AMA. Any place on lemmy where this would work?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The joy of going through pregnancy along with your sister⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I would have an issue with it, personally, because related. But this would be my personal limit

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The joy of going through pregnancy along with your sister⁩ ⁨⁨3⁩ ⁨days⁩ ago⁩:

  I am poly, so, I have no troubles with this. As long as they keep separate bedroom action, I don’t see the issue

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨sus⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  As a poly person: no, it is not a “affiar-tolerant monogamy”. That is an open relationship.

  Polyamorous partnerships are far more committed. Also, sex is not always a part of it.

  Of course there is the concept of a primary partner, but there are lot of poly folks that thislike this idea.

  But what all of those relationships have in common: there is no case where only one partner is poly. All is about communication and consent.

  And to the core topic: There is this thing like a polycule. A network of people with somehow connected relationships. Breakups in those structures are often consensual and no big fuzz. But if it gets dirty, at least in my experience, the offending member of the polycoule gets shown the door. And most of the times, those are the new ones. People that think the could convince their partner to get monogamous because they are the only one that is needed.

  Sorry for the long post, you hit a nerve there ;)

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨[Opinion] Windows isn't an OS, it's a bad habit that wants to become an addiction⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨weeks⁩ ago⁩:

  So, where is the issue?

  I installed Fedora a few years back on a PC of an 70 yest old woman. Reason: EOL of windows 7.

  Last week I visited her. Fedora is up2date, no issues, und besides the initial guided tour I did not provide any support.

  So, apparently, we HAVE already those distributions. So:

  what is your point?

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨The quest to fix the irony at the heart of every heat pump⁩ ⁨⁨1⁩ ⁨month⁩ ago⁩:

  Just to make this clear R290 is also known as propane.

• ⁨Comment⁩ on ⁨Germany's Merz assures Netanyahu can visit country and not be arrested under ICC warrant⁩ ⁨⁨2⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago⁩:

  I, as a german, hope that our executive knows the constitution well enough to ignore this and do their fucking job.