I want you. Go away. If both halves of that sentence have run your relationships, this video explains why. Disorganized attachment is the push-pull pattern so many gay men carry, and in this video I break down six truths about it that most attachment content won't say out loud. Why the wound started with hiding, not dating. Why chaos feels like home and stability feels boring. Why you leave first and call it standards. And the hardest one: why part of you doesn't want to heal. Plus three concrete practices to start rewiring the pattern. #gaymen #attachmentstyles #disorganizedattachment ☕ Support My Work: https://buymeacoffee.com/alexandersterling Every video I make takes hours of writing, scripting, and editing to create content that helps gay men heal self-worth, break free from loneliness, and step into their best lives. If you’ve found value in my videos, even a small contribution goes a long way in keeping this work alive. Thank you for supporting the mission. 💛 📧 alexander@alexandersterling.co