On leave today to settle a few things at home.
So nice to lie down on the cool living room floor with ceiling fan on, in the quiet of a weekday.
Fell asleep for about 15 minutes until the contactor rang my doorbell.
/c/café daily chat thread for 21 July 2023
Submitted 1 year ago by imaginelizard@monyet.cc to cafe@monyet.cc
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unhedged@monyet.cc 1 year ago
truckdrifter2@monyet.cc 1 year ago
The older I get, the more I appreciate moments of stillness
Oh and the chance for a midday nap too 😴
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
And the silence.
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
How does one stay sane when things are just impossible to finish? I’m tired of getting gaslighted by management.
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
There there ( ･･)ﾉ(..`)
Do your best, because tomorrow saturday haha
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
My brain ady holiday mood weh, past few days OT dy now don’t feel like crunching already.
rakyat@monyet.cc 1 year ago
I’ll love to know too 💆🏻♂️
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Woah, okay, so Mali gov is reclaiming the .ml domain which mean lemmy.ml will be gone as well. I wonder if they can just rehost whatever they have into a new domain
dukeGR4@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Going through my old stuff and found my ex’s break up letter to me. Legit couldn’t remember anything about it, I think I was too afraid to read it.
I hate how even in the break up letter she managed to gas light me after admitting that she had anger issues and that she hurt me and my family.
In some ways I have also achieved a bit of closure. I was under the impression she’s got zero remorse when she ghosted me 7 years ago. Younger me just didn’t know about my self-worth and didn’t know how to establish boundaries.
Also found some of the gifts that I gave her, including a Fujifilm Instax and some film. Wanted to chuck it but I think I could use some cold hard cash by selling it.
truckdrifter2@monyet.cc 1 year ago
weecious@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Rightfully deserved. We all know this is a PR move to pull people back.
oyenyaaow@lemmy.zip 1 year ago
whoa!
It;s not really good idea to go join because reddit is trying to bolster its activity to look good unless you’re still holding on to reddit and trying to make it work fuck spez
ruk_n_rul@monyet.cc 1 year ago
there used to be a giant guillotine chopping off snoo-spez’s head on the French flag, but mods of r/place has a super brush tool that constantly erases it.
seacat@monyet.cc 1 year ago
[deleted]IkanCelupTepung@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Sometimes I have more fun from other people giving more reactions when the movie is just ok or bad for me.
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
hyattpotter@monyet.cc 1 year ago
FUCKING GELIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Cute what 🙈
UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Aiyo my mom made an Instagram account
And she just followed me.
What do I do? I don’t want her to meddle in stuffs I’m doing. it’s young people stuff that doesn’t necessarily in line with what they’re hoping for in their child.
oppenMyHeimer@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Time to make another one that’s private with less traceability. Even the email you use to make the new one should not be tied to any accounts. Don’t link phone number so IG won’t use contact list to add you.
After this, pay attention to when you or your friends talk about IG. You don’t want friends to mention “that funny story you put up last week” and have your mom hear it only to wonder why she didn’t see it.
cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 year ago
If you’re going to do another alt insta, might as well try another fediverse analogue and get a Pixelfed. At least it’s not Facebook who’s going to add your new alt and its new alternate email to their profile of you, that will just kantoikan you
UltimateUsermaim@monyet.cc 1 year ago
I see. Which community to join in pixelfed?
cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Additional info on Pixelfed - upcoming features is tiered access to your posts; so a bit like fb flist, so if she ever finds u again, you can have real public posts and posts she’ll never see
Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Move to pixelfed haha.
But yeah gotta have an alt now. One of the reason i quit fb because i have my mom and siblings in my friendlist, and i just doesn’t want my personal online life to be seen by my fam lol
imaginelizard@monyet.cc 1 year ago
FIFA Women’s World Cup is going on right now and I can’t find legal channel to watch it. Another pirates day for me I guess.
SlumberSage@monyet.cc 1 year ago
[deleted]imaginelizard@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Oh nice, thank you!
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Btw, I finally decided to commit to learning Japenese since my friend wants to take N4 JLPT. I’m not sure whether I want to take the exam yet but I shouldn’t rot for too long.
I stopped studying Japanese after I started working and thereafter I relied on informal learning but it wasn’t moving things fast enough.
Don’t worry the bot is still otw o7
i just have a fear of manually testing my own codeunhedged@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Do you learn to read and write too? Or is focused on conversation?
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Learning N4 level Japanese in general haha. I can read and understand a lot because I know more kanji than N5 level and I’ve been listening to a lot of videos in Japanese and watching anime.
cendawanita@monyet.cc 1 year ago
Good luck! I’m still learning after decades 😭
Naomikho@monyet.cc 1 year ago
I’ve been learning for a long time too lol. I knew the very simple stuff since high school, but I never really learnt much until the past few years.
It’s actually pretty hard to learn without an accountability partner. Back when another friend of mine was studying for N4, I was studying too(N5), but I stopped halfway.
Informal learning is also a great way if you’re not preparing for JLPT. I can somewhat communicate if I’m not writing in formal Japanese.
I should revisit akiyama ryohei sensei’s videos on Japanese grammar.