My #friendica instance is somehow somewhere broken, I don't know what or where, no errors no strange logs, I get no notifications nor do any of my contacts feeds update unless I manually re-fetch for each contact, I have tore my DB apart and rebuilt 5x today, still not right, this post may or may not be seen, who knows, I did a big upgrade last weekend and after applying my custom rewrites and trying to keep it all to with bailing wire and duct tape, I am at my wits end, my eyes can only stare at a screen so long, there are not stuck ques jobs ect and everything appears to be working, it it's not, and it's driving me mad, both because it's not right and I hate unfinished puzzles;

I have cleared every cache, I have done everything under the stars, if anybody has any useful information as to how to figure this out please provide clear concise slow step by step process thank you;