what the fuck is this incel shit
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Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 month ago
Inspired by the 300 billionth “women of reddit what are green flags” thread. The thought struck me “hey you’re complaining about all these guys you dated but you still dated them…what’s up with that?”
WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 month ago
Cryophilia@lemmy.world 1 month ago
It’s okay, one day you’ll get it
Anyolduser@lemmynsfw.com 1 month ago
For a long time I’d get involved with confident, self-possessed women who started picking fights six months into dating because they enjoyed the catharsis. It took me three major relationships to find the line between “assertive” and “mean”.
It takes time and experience to learn lessons, and big problems rarely manifest early on in a relationship. Ignoring red flags is foolish, but misinterpretation happens.
ValiantDust@feddit.de 1 month ago
They also stopped dating them at some point apparently, so I’m not sure what you are trying to say. It’s not like the early stages of dating usually involve mowing the lawn or cleaning the house together so that’s something you only find out after having already found plenty of other things to like about this person.
Delphia@lemmy.world 1 month ago
I mean, I do know girls who dated an endless string of painfully handsome guys who spent all their free time in the gym and taking selfies only to find out that they were shallower than a mud puddle and couldnt keep their dick in their pants.