Self-hosting seems like my best choice for now, primarily because my parents don’t really want to use new messengers like telegram, because they already have to use Viber, Meta’s Messenger, WhatsApp, and who knows how much more, add to that that I already have a makeshift home-server out of an old laptop. Also, it’s not “all times”, it’s just when I’m at school.

Instagram I guess I’ll just have DFInstagram isolated on a separate user account on GrapheneOS.

As for the drone, I’ll try DroneLink but I have heard that it may be possible to get DJI Fly working, albeit you have to give it a lot of permissions, thus requiring that you isolate it on a separate user account.