no worries👍

My question is wondering how I can report the user upstream to the instance admins.

within Lemmy, one way is to direct message the admins by checking the instance’s main site sidebar (as it typically lists all mods and admins of the instance)

for P.d I typically chat with fellow mods and admins in our Discord/Matrix channels, not sure about sdf but I’d recommend checking if they also have a Discord/Matrix Chat channels as well