Comment on Italy considers law against sharenting to protect children's privacy

• Umbrias@beehaw.org ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

  Just wait until you hear about all the ways parents used to also fail their children.

  Technological literacy is ideal, but lacking it is hardly a failure of character.

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  • haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

    your comment is very reductive imo. sharing private stuff with millions of people has nothing to do with tech literacy. besides that, my experiences arent stuff to make jokes about.

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    • Umbrias@beehaw.org ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

      It has everything to do with tech literacy. Understanding how to use technology includes the consequences of that use.

      Sure I’ll take the discussion more seriously: I don’t know what your experiences were and im sure you have valid reasons to be upset. But your comment makes no indication of these experiences, and I’m not expecting you to share them, you make no indication of wanting to.

      Projecting those traumas into a cudgel with which to judge strangers harshly on a whim however is going to be behavior that gets pushback. I don’t think that child has unloving parents, nor deserves to be taken to a new family because the parents made a mistake they clearly learned from. I think they broadly reacted well to the situation in a system (surveillance capitalism) which does a poor job, possibly an actively malicious job, of educating people about the downsides of existing in and using features of that system. Maybe they, if digging deeper, have failed to learn or are in fact unloving. But based on the information available, I don’t think that’s a fair assessment.

      I hope you are doing well and wish you luck handling your past and your goals related to it.

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      • haui_lemmy@lemmy.giftedmc.com ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago

        Thanks for elaborating.

        In that case we probably have to agree to disagree. Showing your kid off to the world is bound to have an effect on certain people and these people are there, no matter how much you want big tech and the government to take responsibility.

        Do we have suveilance|turbo|latestage capitalism? Absolutely! Do we need to stop that, yes. Does the absence of it make any kind of fame painting a crosshair on your back stop? No. Thats a social phenomenon and irritatingly logical.

        And while I do share my experiences with people, I‘m socially literate enough to know what to share and when. Because lemmy is very much the local pub and sharing trauma or triggers in a random environment gets you in all kinds of trouble.

        So no, I dont think sharing your kids everything on the internet makes it okay to happen anything bad to you or your kid. The reason I commented was that I got the notion that its regarded as „the parent has done nothing wrong or could have no known better“ which I fully disagree with. Otherwise I have just understood wrongly and/or got triggered by it, which for a change is no big deal in opposition to oversharing the life of a non consenting being.

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