I answered to another post.

I don’t know why everyone assumed I was chosing a side.

Actually I was trying to make a blank statement. I agree with you but I don’t think people who post that kind of posts you mention are tough at all.

There are toxic people being upset all around and being triggered because someone is defending their rights. I think we as a society should be more tolerant in general and stop dwelling in absolutes.

But that’s another issue. My point is that if the two choices are tough or vulnerable, give me a little bit of both depending on the situation. I wrote a personal example further up.