I got some advice and I’m still living it so I can’t say if it’s worth it but:

“Spend money on the things you enjoy and cut everything else to the bare minimum”

So if you like having a nice house more than going to a sporting event you shouldn’t be budgeting for the sporting event. Just don’t go. If you love great food but hate driving, buy kitchen accessories not dinners. That sort of thing.

I’m not explaining it as well though