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Comment on Women STEM students up to twice as likely as non-STEM students to have experienced sexism

I’m a woman in STEM. I only went to a CC, so maybe there’s a difference there, but I didn’t experience much sexism in my time there.

I have experienced it at work, but usually from the younger, unsocialized men. Is it a problem? Sure, but I’ll take that over my bosses being sexist.

Also, along with the sexism does come some privilege. When I do something wrong, I tend to get taken easier on when it comes to punishment. I also am able to form… different (non-sexial) bonds with the higher ups. These dynamics are much different to any bonds I had with female bosses from my previous field of work, and they’re different than the bonds the higher ups have with my male counterparts. I can say that I don’t worry about being laid off or fired.

However, I’m also fairly certain that I have a sharp awareness of these bonds and how to manipulate them to get what I want.

Not trying to poo-poo any sexism claims, just that there’s also certainly a privilege to be had being a woman minority in a male-dominated field.

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Haha@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
Jesus fuck you sound horrible

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- OceanSoap@lemmy.ml ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  Why’s that? People like me fine.
  
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  - Smoogs@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    According to you.
    
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    OceanSoap@lemmy.ml ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    It’s lemmy. Who cares
    
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Smoogs@lemmy.world ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
That entire post was an ode to Internalized misogyny.

Is it a problem? Sure, but I’ll take that over my bosses being sexist.

Both can be wrong…When someone asks you if you’ve experienced sexism, It isn’t to fill some imaginary, arbitrary quota we’re reaching. No need to omit. No one’s grading your essay here.

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- OceanSoap@lemmy.ml ⁨10⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
  Ah yes someone has a different experience?? They must internally hate themselves. 🙄
  
  I’m not omiting anything, just adding that some privilege comes along with the sexism.
  
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  - Smoogs@lemmy.world ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    You don’t know what internal misogyny is. This is sounding more and more like a pipe dream of an MRA incel trying to strawperson stories that situations women find themselves in are a privilege of power just so you can misogyny about it.
    
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    OceanSoap@lemmy.ml ⁨9⁩ ⁨months⁩ ago
    I know what it means, its just used incorrectly a lot, like it is here.
    
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