Comment on /c/café daily chat thread for 8 October 2023
dukeGR4@monyet.cc 11 months agoYou probably didn’t get over the person… you could still be happy without your ex or anyone (in the future) for that matter.
And perhaps it’s worth thinking about why do you miss the person in the first place. Do you miss him because you feel lonely? Or do you miss him because you’re not as happy as you’ve hoped so you think about your previous fond memories?
PawjamaParty@lemmy.world 11 months ago
I’m definitely lonely, and also depressed over how life has gone for the past months. I don’t have much to celebrate. I don’t really think of him that fondly tbh. I do always remember the hurt that was caused, even more than the good stuff, but under there is just the feeling of comfort, belonging, and something close to love.