Comment on Another 62 ‘Girls Do Porn’ Victims Sue Pornhub for $600 Million

• Ookami38@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Whoa what? Who said it was knowing? I’m pretty sure every comment I’ve read in this thread has been “oh God, I didn’t know that studio did this shit, I feel disgusted!”

  I’m legitimately sorry you’ve been raped. You also have to look around that lens and see the actual truth of the situation, not take it out on the people who are very much with you on this thing.

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  • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Okay, so now you know that a non zero amount of porn you consume is made by sexually abusing women. Are you going to certify that anything else you consume is safely and ethically produced in a non-coercive manner by participants who are consenting and capable of withdrawing that consent? Are you going to make sure you only consume ethical porn? Are the rest of the people in this thread? Are they going to continue to consume pornography the same way they have been, with little regard for how its made and by whom and the circumstances of the actors being filmed?

    If your answer is yes, then good. I hope you’re able to understand why the very existence and tolerance of this industry and this content is absolutely horrifying to me.

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    • Ookami38@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      I take every reasonable step that I can. I also speak out when I see something truly gross and damaging. I ALREADY DO THESE THINGS. The difference is, when I see a video that’s even ethically questionable, I don’t point to the viewers and go “AH HAH I KNEW IT WAS YOU!” I point to the people who made the thing.

      Let me ask you this. What is worse? Raping a woman (or man,for that matter) and recording it, or watching the video? I would absolutely say doing the act is worse than watching it. Circumstances don’t even really matter. It doesn’t matter of the watcher knows it’s a rape, or anything else except MAYBE of they explicitly commissioned the film. The act is far worse than watching it, in my opinion.

      My view is simple. Point your anger to the people ACTUALLY DOING BAD THINGS instead of those that just come after the fact.

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      • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        Masturbating to a woman being sexually abused IS a bad thing. Two different things can both be bad.

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• onlinepersona@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Rape is not equatable with unethically using a cell phone that I require to exist in society at all.

  What are you talking about? My father doesn’t have a phone. Does that mean he doesn’t exist?

  Your argument is only based on emotions. What if I told you that I had relatives who died working in the mines for the minerals in your smartphone? What if I told you the money you paid for nigh every product in your life was used to keep people from my country in shit? That you (specifically you) helped pay a company to fuck up the political system of my country?

  Well, I guess it’s bashing time now, because I have the moral highground, right? I mean, yes, you were raped, but my relatives were killed; forced to work in inhumane conditions and die before you even could leave highschool. I had to flee a war with my parents where more of my relatives were killed all because of the consumerism of you, your parents, your friends, relatives, and your country. I should hate everything about you. There’s no middleground here - you and people like you are evil.

  My anger is greater than yours, so my argument is more valid. Only somebody who had it worse than me can have an opinion that is “more valid”. Only they can be the arbiter of morality since their suffering is greater than mine.

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  Hopefully you get the point.

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  • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    I’d say “I’m sorry your relatives died. I only got this phone so I could get a job and an apartment, both of which I require a cell phone to acquire in the modern world. All modern life is being tied directly to cellular devices and I have been coerced by capitalism and the government into getting one. Not having one means a significant portion of modern society is inaccessible to me. I wouldn’t have one if it was reasonably avoidable.”

    Whats your comparable justification for masturbating to a woman being sexually abused?

    This is what we mean when we say we live in a society that justifies sexual abuse against women. Its seen as an unfortunate side effect of men having sexuality. Youre acting like watching a woman being raped and whipping out your cock to get off to it is a reasonable thing to do, and like the viewer is totally casually disconnected from what they’re viewing. Have you ever wondered why so many women would be raped in the porn industry? Tell me, why is the porn industry full of sexual coercion and rape? Is this natural in some way? Is it natural for men to want to witness rape, to be fine witnessing rape, or to see accidentally getting off to rape as equivalent to “eating an unethically sourced chocolate” or “using a cell phone that was made of unethically sourced parts”?

    The difference is I have a cell phone for a reason other than abusing workers. I eat chocolate because it tastes good, not because witnessing workers being abused brings me pleasure. Does it bring you pleasure to witness women being raped? Is masturbating to women being sexually abused an acceptable consequence of consuming pornography to you?

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    • onlinepersona@programming.dev ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      Yep, we’re turning in circles. You’re justifying your consumption of blood goods “because you need it” and “because it’s good”, and if someone said the same about porn, you’d say they’re evil. Yet somehow, you don’t think that’s hypocritical because you were raped.

      Your rhetoric and argumentative style is just using fallacies and moral outrage. You know full well that not everybody in porn is being abused on camera or being forced to do it, yet you argue as if all are and that anybody watching it is complicit. That same line of reasoning can be used with your consumption.

      Does it bring you pleasure to witness women being raped? Is masturbating to women being sexually abused an acceptable consequence of consuming pornography to you?

      Does it bring you pleasure to give money to corps who kill my people? Is consuming products made by the hands of little children a turn on for you? Do you moan in pleasure and exclaim “OMG this is SO FUCKING GOOD” when you imagine another family toiling away, possibly for their whole lives, to makes products that you only half consume and then toss in the trash because you’re “full”?

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      It’s terrible that you were raped and you are obviously still dealing with it, so I wish you the best of luck on that path.

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      • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        No, I don’t. I eat chocolate because it tastes good. The food reacting to my tongue is the desired feeling. Cumming into a sock watching a woman getting raped is not the same as eating chocolate and I’m not going to endlessly listen to men justify why you just have to be able to masturbate to women being raped just the same as I have to wear clothes.

        “Its terrible that you were raped” yeah, you don’t have to pretend to empathize with a rape victim. Your actions betray your actual feelings, that you get off to rape. You watch it happen with your eyes. The rape is the chocolate in this scenario. You’re watching a woman get raped and just HAVE to whip your dick out and jerk off, just like someone eating chocolate or wearing clothes. Cumming to a woman being raped is a delicacy to you, like chocolate to anyone else.

        You’re just a rape apologist. I’m done listening to your empty justifications about why masturbating while watching a woman being raped is somehow an understandable or necessary act. It’s clear you do not understand sexual violence and do not empathize with the victim you’re tugging your dick to.

        Gonna copy paste another comment and then I’m done. Have fun being a misogynist.

        S9+. Not that it matters, as again I do not have a phone because I derive pleasure from watching child labor. Watching porn of a woman being sexually abused and getting off to it is getting pleasure from a woman being sexually abused, like you are cumming watching a woman being raped. The rape is the commodity you’re consuming. It’s the content, it’s how you’re consuming it and its why you’re consuming it. the child labor is not the cell phone. The cell phone exists for reasons beyond child labor. The porn is of a woman being raped. Thats it. Start to end its rape. not all of it, but a portion of it is. And so you have to be okay with that you have to be fine with getting off to rape. If that wasn’t fine with you, you would refuse to consume it. Again, nothing in your life is impacted by choosing to get off to something else.

        I’ve been making the same point for the last 2 hours and waiting for you to either acknowledge that you’re cool with the chance of you getting off to women being sexually abused.

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• Ookami38@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

  Since we’re discussing reasonable mitigation factors, when was the last time you got a new cellphone? And the time before that? Were they absolutely unable to be used? How about your clothes? Did you wear them til they’re threadbare, barely holding together? Coffee? Chocolate? You ever consume those from non-fair-trade sources?

  It’s absolutely ridiculous to place the blame for all of those things on the consumer. You do your best, and you make Boise about the shit the manufacturers and producers do, in whatever way you can bear. I don’t care about what’s worse between rape and slavery, that’s a fuckin dumb discussion they both suck. Do your best to limit your impact, but know that your impact alone, and mine, and every other person in this threads, is MINIMAL. Form allies, and together we can deal with the actual problems.

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  • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

    Masturbating to a woman being sexually abused is not comparable with eating something unethically sourced. I’m not gaining gratification from witnessing the workers being abused. When you masturbate to a woman being sexually abused you are directly getting sexual gratification from sexual abuse. I don’t know what to tell you if you cannot understand how that is different from eating an unethically sourced food.

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    • Ookami38@sh.itjust.works ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

      You’re literally gaining gratification from the abuse of people. Don’t deny it. We all fucking are. Make allies, and fight it.

      It doesn’t matter that you witness it or not. What most people witness when. They watch porn is something they assume is above the table. There are laws that say you can’t rape and you can’t film certain things. It’s a pretty reasonable assumption that most pornography you’re going to find would follow those laws, otherwise it’d be taken down.

      A critical look at the situation reveals this isnt the case. Porn is going to be produced to look as legit as possible. That deception keeps a lot of people from realizing the shit they’re watching is actually horrible. Why place the blame for the action on the person that was deceived, rather than the one doing the deceiving?

      To tie it all back together, consumption as we know it today quite literally cannot be ethical. Everything we consume is brought about by abuse, either of people, or of the planet. I don’t see the point in making it the person lowest on the totem pole of suffering who should bear that sin. It’s on the people at the top, and we need to figure out how to set OUR differences aside and target the ones actually doing.

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      • LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone ⁨1⁩ ⁨year⁩ ago

        So then, in your view, masturbating to a woman being raped accidentally is an acceptable consequence of watching pornography?

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